Post # 1
I wanted to get your opinons on heavily beaded gowns. Do you think they take away from “you” and that others will not notice the whole picture of you and just notice your gown?
These are the two dressses I’m between. I am torn because I have always liked both styles. If I got the one with less beading, I would make the train longer. (I am not the person pictured in the dress but I am about the same size..I found the photos on the bridal shop’s website).
I’ve attached a picture of the venue as well.
Post # 3
I think it depends on how the bride feels in the gown. If she feels the beads take away from her, then the beads will take away from her because she won’t be feeling it. However, if a bride feels gorgeous in a beaded gown, then nothing is going to take away from the bride because everything about her will just glow and shine.
Post # 4
First of all, your venue (and both gowns) are very beautiful!! I don’t happen to think that either of those gowns are “heavily” beaded, in fact, they both have just enough beading to make them more formal options but are not fully beaded by any means. It’s just my opinion, but I don’t feel that the amount of beading on these gowns would take away from you at all!!
Post # 5
I have a heavily beaded gown and thought the same thing… I have since become completely in love with all the beading and all accepting of it. I think it adds so much elegance and lux to a gown. I think you being in the gown is obviously is the best asset to the dress. You look beautiful!
Post # 6
1st let me say the venue looks amazing! I think both dresses look great! my personal favorite is the 1st one! I don’t think heavy beading takes away from the bride. I think your dress should represent your personality! Beaded gowns are gorgeous and if you love them then go for it!
Post # 7
There was a lot of beading on my gown and I never even gave it any thought! The wedding was supposed to be outside, but we just had the ceremony outdoors as it got colder in the evening and my dress probably wasn’t for an outdoor wedding but none of that mattered to me! I would go with the dress you love…
Post # 8
I don’t consider either of those heavily beaded. I think it’s just enough beading to look special and match your venue!
Post # 9
Honestly you gotta try the gown on to know for sure. In the end what matters most is how you feel in the gown..
Post # 10
Normally, I’m not crazy about a lot of beading, but that is beautiful!
Post # 11
Your venue is stunning!
Both those dresses are gorgeous and I don’t think there is too much beading on either of them, but rather just enough if you would like some beading. If you are comfortable in the dress than go for it!
Post # 12
for the two dresses you like, the beaded one looks more vintage and the plain one looks more modern to me. so it depends on what kind of feel/theme you want for your wedding. your venue is really beautiful and i’m sure it’ll look amazing either vintage-y or modern.
my gown is a lace gown with beadings and sparkles ALL OVER it. i was once scared that the all-over beading/sparkle would look cheap, but that was when i was waiting to receive my dress. after i received it and got to try it on again, i fell in love with it again. in fact, a guy friend who hated sparkles and beadings on wedding dresses told me that he LOVED my dress. so don’t worry about whether a dress will take away from YOU, because you, the bride, will for sure be the center of the attention on your wedding day 🙂
Post # 13
Did you try the dress on? I love it. So pretty. I love beading a sparkles, but sadly all the heavily beaded dresses were too much for me. The dresses were too heavy and really overwhelmed me. I tried on a $5000 beaded dress and it was soooo heavy I would not be able to wear that all night. I was drowing in beads. I am 5 3 and 110 lbs. I went with a light rhinstone beading. I think you need to try it on and see how it looks and how you feel in it. The bride in the pic looks beautiful.
Post # 14
I don’t feel that dress is too heavily beaded at all. Either case, the beading doesn’t take away from the bride, it adds to the glamour. People will still see you as a whole package, your dress, headpiece, hair,makeup etc; as a beautiful bride. I’m also 5’3″ 110 lbs and wore a dress so heavy with beading and textured embroidery that it broke two hangers before the wedding. I still didn’t feel it overpowered me.
Post # 15
I have to agree with everyone else. When you said “heavily beaded,” I was picturing something with all-over beads and totally sparkly. Neither of those come close. I think the shine will draw attention to you, without being overpowering.
Post # 16
Thank you for your opinions! I am glad that they aren’t too heavily beaded. I did try them on but they didn’t let me take pictures of me in the dress. If anyone knows that name of the more beaded dress I would appreciate it!!! I want to find it somewhere else to take a picture of it. I decided that I will either get the more beaded one or a Marisa dress and add beading if able. I think the Marisa is prettier that that other dress (not as beaded) I posted when looking back.