Post # 1
my fiance made a sudden decision picking his best man and realized he made a mistake. he is not sure what to do because he hurt a good friends feelings. i told him just to tell them he has two best men and it doesnt matter which ordr they stand bc they are just as important. any advice as to what to do?! he’s real upset and is honestly, losing sleep over it.
Post # 3
You shouldn’t ask someone to be your best man if you dont mean it. Asking him to step down or step aside is really rude. Thats said, most men wouldn’t care if he told BM he needed to ask his brother to be best man first and didnt realize what best man ment.
Post # 4
We had a different situation, but wanted to honor two sets of people – friends and family. So we have a Best Man and a Best Woman, and then added a Maid of Honor and a Man of Honor a few months later. Good luck!
Post # 5
i like pink.sequins solution. and i’m having two MOHs so i think he can def do that. 🙂
Post # 6
we got it figured out. he told him he didnt realize i was having a matron of honor and maid of honor so now he needed 2 best men. which is true, he didnt know. thank you pink & cartascartas for your friendly help.
& it wasnt that he didnt mean it. hes close with both of them and had a hard time picking b/c of that.
Post # 7
we are having two best men as well, sometimes you just cannot choose between very important people