Help, 1st bachelorette party – is this a stupid gift?

posted 3 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Are my cookies a stupid bachelorette gift?
    Yes - scrap them and get underwear! : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Yes - scrap them and get something else (what?!) : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Nope - those cookies are totally fine! : (102 votes)
    96 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I think the cookies are cute! I got plenty of panties and sexy gifts, but I would have loved cookies. Just be prepared that you might be the only one with a non-sexy gift, haha.

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I don’t know about her but I love cookies! Those look great.

    Bachlorette parties don’t always involve gifts, if no one’s said anything to you about it this one probably doesn’t.

    Post # 5
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    6506 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @eocenia:  I think those cookies are beautiful and I would love to receive them! Only one girl brought a gift to my party, a delicious bottle of wine. I wasn’t expecting anything as they paid my way throughout our activities.

    Post # 6
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    OMG, no cookies are a great gift!!! I’ve only brought underwear to a bachelorette once when the bridesmaids requested it for a party game. I would never gift someoe underwear!

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think this is a fantastic gift!!!

    Post # 8
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I would love cookies! I got plenty of lingerie at my bachelorette and would have been happy to get something a little different. 

    Post # 10
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @eocenia:  I have never been to a bachelorette party where the guests brought gifts of any sort. It might be a regional thing, but we only went out and shared an activity together, whether that was barhopping, wine tasting or mani/pedis.

    Your cookies are beautiful and the bride and the other guests will love them.

    Post # 11
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I think these are adorable! I’m in awe at how good they are! Considering this girl isn’t a party girl and you are just doing a girls day etc… I think these are totally fine, they’re thoughtful and I’m sure took a lot of work! Underwear is definitely NOT required, and especially not if there was no mention of doing a lingerie gift exchange in the invitation etc… 

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee

    Keep the cookies ! 

    Underwear ? O_o   I hope it was a joke. 

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Those cookies are gorgeous!  Too pretty to eat… She will love them I am sure. 🙂

    Post # 15
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @eocenia:  If it was a “panty giving” type of party most times they would have listed her sizes on the invitation. This might not be true everywhere (since I’m apparently the only bee who’s ever seen registry information on an invitation GASP!!), but that’s the way I’ve always seen it done. No bra/panty size= please don’t give me undies. 

    Post # 16
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    381 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Those cookies look AMAZING! Please bring those. Getting underwear as a gift from anyone but your SO is just awkward. I dont usually bring gifts for bachelorette parties but I do what you are doing and bring a little something for each girl. Last one I made penis shaped chocolate (but it was a risky themed party)

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