Post # 1
I need some advise. I have been friends with my a maid of honor for 18 years now . She has done nothing what so ever not even seeing how things are coming along or how I am doing. It is one month until my wedding date and she still has yet to get her dress nor has sent back her RSVP card yet. Basically she only talks to me when it is convent for her. Our friendship now is not a friendship it’s just someone who I have known for 18 years now. How do I ask her if she is still interested in being in my wedding without being rude?
Post # 3
I’m sorry this happened to you. Maybe give her a call and try to strike up a conversation and mention if shes all set to come or something?
Its kind of an awkward situation…
Post # 4
Ya just give her a friendly call… Ask her how everything is coming together. Let her know you still haven’t received her reply; joke if she’s still coming! Make it very light hearted. Maybe ask about the dress, if she would like the two of you to go together, maybe go to lunch after? You dont want to create any drama since she is your Maid/Matron of Honor.
She should be more involved and helping you; maybe she’s just not the type of person and needs the extra push.