- 3 years ago
Hi all 🙂 I’m Julia, 32 and from the UK. I have decided to register as I am driving my SO crazy with my constant hints about marriage, even though he keeps saying the proposal is coming, I don’t think I will really believe it until it has happened.
We have been together for just over ten months – I know that this isn’t long at all really, but we were both sure about it being the real thing very early on, and I moved to his home town to live with him last November. He’s my absolute world and love of my life 🙂 He is several months younger than me. He wants the same things out of life and we’re very happy. I had a horrific experience in my previous relationship and there are times I get insecure simply because of what my ex was like, but my SO is wonderful and has never given me any reasons to doubt him, and he is incredibly patient with me.
I have been ready to be a Wife for a long time now, but I always knew it had to be with ‘that’ person (which my SO most definitely is!!) and in fact I have been engaged to a previous partner some years ago now – I ended the relationship because it got to a point of just not feeling right. I knew I wanted to be married, just, in the end, not to him. So to have FINALLY found the wonderful relationship, love, commitment, honesty I have with my SO is all my dreams come true.
Except, I want to marry him so badly!! He has strongly hinted as to when it might be (this coming May, on our one year anniversary of being together) but I am by nature a very cynical person and won’t believe it until it happens. Ring trying-on has happened – though this was me who initiated it. He constantly tells me how much he loves me and how he wants to be with me forever, and I do believe the proposal is coming in the not-too-distant future… but wow, the waiting is difficult. So ladies, best get used to me hanging around here for the time being!