(Closed) Help

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Could you give a little bit more details? 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh okay, best friend not boyfriend sorry 🙂  That makes that a little more clear.

Let me first say that I am a very upfront person, very blunt – and it’s caused issues in the past, so my opinion might not be the best in this situation but…

What I would do is really take a long look at my friendship with this girl, and really evaluate why we’re friends, recipical, and that type of thing.  Honestly, alcohol makes us say and do things that we wouldn’t normally do or say – but those actions and words come from somewhere in us even if we don’t admit it to our conscious selves.  So I think what she said is what she really meant.  Has she spoken to you about her outburst?

If she hasn’t, then I would think that she’s probably thinking that you’ll take it like you did her comment when you got engaged and just put it aside.  While I understand that you don’t want to cause issues or a fight, sometimes things that need to be discussed aren’t pleasant.  If y’all haven’t already had a really deep sit down talk, I would and then take it from there.

That conversation should tell you a lot about the type of person she is and about how she views y’all’s friendship.

-Hugs and good luck!

 

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