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posted 3 months ago in Emotional
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    sheilamelo    January 2, 2013  

    Hi, Bees

     so if all the problem that are going on with Fi (that I told you about) were not enough, I also have a co-worker that is driving me nuts!!

    She is also getting married and ALL she does is come talk to me about wedding stuff! I understand she is happy and excited while I am not and even questioning my engagement but lately I have got the feeling that she is trying to put me down...or get me jealous...??????

    It is all this bragging about the dress price and the venue and the honeymoon (that her rich uncle gave them!!!! And that is ok, I am sincerely happy for her.

    I don't want to be rude, but when she starts to make faces to my plans (or lack of thereoff) I just get sad.

    What should I do? Just avoide her? Should I say something?

     

     
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    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    I'd stop talking about wedding details with her or in her presence.  If she asks something specific, just give a generic answer and then change the subject.  There's nothing to confront her about - just go about your business and let her stew in her own drama.

     
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    GroovyHippieChick    October 20, 2012   My Happy Place

    I would tell her you decided to elope last weekend and unfortunately you no longer have any wedding stuff to decide. Smile  Nor are you interested in talking about it.

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    I agree...stop talking to her about your wedding details. Or just let her know that you'd prefer people not to know all the details of your wedding. That way, she can't make faces at your plans.

     
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    zomgwut    July 28, 2013  

    I would tell her that you're excited for her but you have work to do and really don't have time to discuss your wedding plans.  Don't call me, I'll call you.

     

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