(Closed) Help Bees! Destination Wedding or Elopment? :(

posted 5 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 3
355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Sadihab:  Tough call! I’d say do what you want and have a Destination Wedding. If your guests who can’t make it live near you, then you could host a small party when you get back.

I’m sorry you are being guilted for this… it’s your wedding, not theirs!

Post # 4
3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I absolutely HATE that people think they’re ENTITLED to come to a wedding just because they know you by face! I dont care if it’s friends or family, this shouldn’t be happening!! Entitlement. Pisses me off!

Post # 5
5243 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Sadihab:  I say do what you want and have destination wedding! Thats what we are doing and I dont feel selfish at all..If people cant come they cant some and I dont see any selfishness in that.

Post # 6
343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Your mom telling you not to elope is selfish of HER, not the other way around.  My mom is the best but it annoyed me that she expected a wedding from me and guilt tripped me into doing a Destination Wedding at least.  Maybe I’ll be grateful in the end, we’ll see getting married next month!

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