- 5 years ago
Wonder if you have any great ideas I am getting married this year, we are all pretty much set apart from one thing that I can’t seem to sort!
My FI parents adopted a little girl (when I say little she is actually 13) and is lovely but we don’t really have much to do with her, it is important to make her feel involved in the wedding day but I don’t know how. There are no roles for her to fill that jump out at me.
Basically FIs mum wants her to be a BM but thats just not fair on my BMS and she can’t be a bridesmaid for various other reasons.
However the ideas I think of to involve her always seem to get looked over, I have asked if she would do a reading at the church and if she would walk out of the church with the wedding party in arm with my brother.
FIs mum doesn’t seem to want anything apart from her to be a BM (she is used to getting her own way).
I basically said well you think of something for her to do then and left it as that.
Any suggestions? Perhaps she could be in charge of the confetti as well although I am afraid anything I say now will sound like an after thought. 🙁