- 4 years ago
So the other groomsmen have told me that the best man is being extremely disinterested, in particular in relation to the bucks night. The others have asked him what his plans were and given him their suggestions but he just doesn’t seem to care, one of the others suggested they meet up and organise things and he just didn’t reply.
i rip have had a couple of problems with him too, he was too busy to come buy the shirts with us so I put one on lay by for him… I’ve been asking him when he can pay me back and if he can go in to try it on and he’s just ignoring my calls. I hate having to ask people to pay me back for things it’s really awkward for me and no doubt for him too but it’s not like I don’t have better things to do than chase him up!
All these small problems make me really anxious and I just regret even having a wedding at all.
i dont want to tell my fiancé because it’s his best friend but I also want my fiance to have an awesome bucks night! Please help, should I say tI the best man that he needs to step up?