(Closed) HELP! – dress for a cathedral wedding

posted 5 years ago in Dress
Post # 4
165 posts
Blushing bee

I think with a gorgeous ceremony site like that- you need a beautiful princess gown with a cathedral length train. Long veil. A more traditional gown since the venue is not modern, but more old world. There is no way any gown would compete with that space. I love it!

Post # 5
1306 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Your venue is to die for! It is so gorgeous! I can’t really explain any dreses off the top of my head, but my mind instantly went to a simple, a-line gown or ball gown with straps of some kind. Definitely with a long veil. Something classic and timeless.

Post # 6
259 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

stunning venue! definately a long veil for that king of wedding! i have to ask, what is bringing you to the UK for your wedding? Oxford is a beautiful city.

Post # 7
7992 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

It has to be A line with a long train and a long veil. You will also probably have to have sleeves of some kind, I suspect, or else wear a bolero. If you like simpler styles then I would stay away from ballgowns.

That cathedral is so beautiful. Wish I was getting married somewhere like that!

Post # 8
2587 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

I would say something with a simple but elegant cut – I would go for lace, personally. I don’t think you need a big floofy ball gown, I think for somewhere like that something classic would be more suitable. You don’t need to fill the venue with your dress, and I think some of the modern floofier things would really look out of place there.

I’ve not personally been to Oxford, so I don’t know the size of the cathedral inside – but from that picture it looks quite small width-ways even though it’s tall. It can be difficult to tell though! I mean, this is my church:

This picture makes it look a lot bigger than it is!

I think for the area and the atmosphere though, elegance – and to a point simple elegance – would be what you should look at!

I think something like this from Pronovias might be good!

Comparitively simple cut – the material does most of the speaking, and it looks elegant. Also the shrug would be good for modesty in the church part of the service – not sure how strict they’d be on that, but it’s something I’m having to think about.

(Mainly I think I’m sold on a lot of the Pronovias styles because the model looks uncannily like Grace Kelly though, who I hold up as a pinnacle of style and elegance – but other designers have similar styles too).

But it’s all about the style that flatters you – and that you feel comfortable in! You like simple dresses, I don’t see why you couldn’t wear a simple dress:

This one is quite simple, but with some slight detailing, which I think would look beautiful.

Or this one, which combines a couple of elements:

The lace shrug/train is removable, so you could have that on for the cathedral part, but remove it and have the stunning, very simple and elegant dress underneath for afterwards.


ETA: Just been reading the wikipedia page – apparently it is one of the smallest cathedrals in the country, and given as it was built in the 1500s, it makes sense that it looks comparatively… cramped (not in a bad way, but couldn’t think of another word!) Found a picture of it full:

And reports of its capacity vary from 150, to 600, somewhere even reckons 1000, but that’s with most people standing and barely anyone able to see because the only line of sight is down the centre, everyone else is plonked in the wings either side. So whilst it’s a cathedral, it’s not like a giant imposing building, more just a pretty church. I think you’ll be able to wear whatever you want, but maybe check with the vicar beforehand about whether you’ll need to cover up during the service with a bolero etc.

Post # 9
6127 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

Look up Martina Liana 428. This dress immediately came to my mind. On the designer’s website it’s even shown with a bolero that would be perfect for a catherdal wedding. (I don’t like the sash shown in the picture, but that can be removed)

Post # 11
163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Or look up Mori Lee 4916

Post # 12
476 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Oh, the Pronovias Georgia with a shrug would work!  I loved it, but couldn’t deal with a 6 foot train.

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