Help! Falling Apart….

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
8387 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@kellym83:  Good intentions don’t mean anything.  You’re either interrupting him, or you’re not.  It doesn’t matter if you “don’t mean to” take the easy way out, but you still do.  I’m guessing he wants to see results, not just an effort.  If you genuinely are trying your best and it’s not good enough, you two may just not be compatible.  It doesn’t sound like either one of you are very happy with the situation.  Hopefully things will get better for you, or maybe you could try some couple’s counseling to help with your communication.  Best of luck.

Post # 4
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@kellym83: You’ve only given this a few weeks? Sorry, hon, but it may take him longer than that to see the changes you are trying to make, and perhaps you are blind to the times you think you are listening but really aren’t. Let him have his space and think this over, and honestly, fi you truly, genuinely feel that you are making an effort and he just isn’t responding then you need to make the choice on whether you want to keep trying to change for someone who won’t recognize your efforts. I hope everything works well in the end. Good luck.

Post # 6
326 posts
Helper bee

@kellym83:  Just curious… 🙂 How’d things turn out?

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