help! first post!

posted 3 years ago in Music
Post # 3
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4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@onesweetdayinmay:  Play the damn song. That is one of the most high-school things I’ve ever read on here. She cannoy lay claim to a song. SMH.

Seriously: do not even respond to that text.

ETA: if you’re feeling confrontational, go ahead and tell her that the nature of songs is for them to be “special”…to a LOT of people.

 

Post # 4
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1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

To heck with her.  Your FSIL is being ridiculous.  It can be your song if you want it to be!

Post # 5
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8903 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@onesweetdayinmay:  that’s crazy.

I would respond saying that you understand how she feels, but it’s a very special song to the two of you and hopefully she can understand that.  Then don’t deal with this crazy issue any more!  (Ignore any followup texts, etc.)  

I can’t believe the nerve of that girl – that is seriously ballsy.

Post # 6
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9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@onesweetdayinmay:  Unless she has copyrights to it, then it doesn’t really matter what she wants. It’s your day, choose the song you want. If she’s so offended, she can leave the room. A song can mean something to a lot of people…it’s not mutually exclusive. This song is meaningful to me so it can’t be to you. Um, what? No.

Post # 7
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42453 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Does she seriously think she can rule out your using every song they played at their wedding?

Post # 8
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744 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Use it and enjoy your first song!

Post # 11
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2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@LilRhodyGem:  +1. an immature turd is a good description.

OP, play the song. she’ll get over it. and if she doesn’t, screw it.

Post # 12
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1584 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@onesweetdayinmay:  Tell FSIL to grow up, she cannot lay claim to all songs she likes the meaning behind. I could understand if it was their first dance song, but it wasn’t so definitely go ahead and use it. Tough luck if she doesn’t like it.

Post # 13
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1959 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Absolutely use the song.  As PP’s said no one can lay claim to a song.  I can see if they already used it for thier first dance, but they didn’t.  That means fair game.  If you feel up to it, you can explain to her why its so important to you.  Any one in thier right mind should realize how silly it is to claim a song. 

Btw, welcome to the hive!

Post # 15
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1071 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club

Please play the song!
I can’t believe she had the nerve to ask you not to!! Wow.
Huge eye roll to her!

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