Post # 1
So, I am trying to plan this wedding out and my FMIL and FSIL is being a total pain in my ass! I felt obligated to ask my FSIL in the first place by my FMIL and FI, so I asked and now she is wanting to dictate everything I want. She doesn’t like the dress, color, shoes, location, flowers, anything! Everytime I say “well its OUR day, this is what I WANT” she says “Fine we just won’t come!” – my FMIL is wanting to wear a red dress after I asked her not to, but she states because shes single she wants to look HOT and possibly find a man. My FI and I told her she wan’t bringing one of her loser internet flings to the wedding. She is demanding I put her on the invitations, she refuses to let me know her ideas/thoughts for the rehersal dinner, she simply says “im an adult, I don’t need to clear anything with you or him!” I am so effin tired of this and if I hear the phrase “your mommas baby boy” one more time, I am going to throw up all over everything!
Post # 3
Wow… red dress.. internet flings…your momma’s baby boy…vomit…doesn’t get much better than that.
I would tell FSIL “this is my bridal party, I call the shots, you’re either in or out. You decide” Seriously tell her to shape up or ship out.
The red dress… I’m not sure what you can do, just be prepared. FI told me his mom is most likely going to wear an informal dress from her closet to our wedding despite everyone else being semi-formal. She’ll look ridiculous that’s for sure.
Hang in there..think happy thoughts, have a glass or two of wine it will all work out!
Post # 4
LMAO! KICK THEIR ASSES OUT OF YOUR WEDDING! this may be a little harsh I know, but it doesn’t seem like you can reason with these people. Talk to them and let them know how important YOUR day is and how you have envisioned YOUR wedding and tell your FSIL that if she hates being a bridesmaid so much that she can leave (not your fault, you did what you were asked to and asked her. She didn’t live up to expectations) and if she is not coming to the wedding that you will just have one less head to pay for 😉 good luck!