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    alexro    March 31, 2012  

    Hi ladies...

     

    As you can tell, I am in a little predicament...its 9 weeks to my wedding, and I cannot fit my dress! Its actually 3 inches too small all around...

     I have been trying different diets and excercise, but it seems I am putting on pounds rather than loosing them...

    any suggestions of what I could do to fix this? help!

     
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    Blueknightess    July 20, 2013   Ontario, Canada

    Could you possibly let it out a bit? Or replace the zipper with a corset?

     
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    Bichon Frise    June 2012   NC

    3 inches is going to be tough to lose in 9 weeks. I would look into letting it out or the corset back option.

     
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    cabincrewkate    February 18, 2012   UK

    A girl I knew had a similar problem,she dieted (slim fast actually!) like a crazy lady and had a shrink wrap the day before and the dress fit on the day!! Good luck! :)

     
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    SFreeman2187    September 10, 2011  

    Water, shrink wrap, low sodium.

     

    Though the best guaranteed way to make it work is corset. (I did this for my senior prom dress....)

     
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    maudemaisha       Montreal

    Use every opportunity to move :) Stairs instead or elevator etc.. Work out, water and low sodium (as PP said) 

    And definately check and see if you can/want to go the corset route :) Good luck sweety !!!

     
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    Ashley_B    September 22, 2012  

    Start drinking lots of water, like 2 or more litres a day. Stay away from caffiene, diet sodas, and salt!! Go for runs or walk and do more cardio workouts . Foods like cucumber and ginger help with the bloat (if you feel like you might be).

    Did you try your dress with spanx or anything?

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    I would get it let out. with all the stress of the wedding the last thinkg you want to deal with it whether your dress fits or not. Good luck!

     
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    Brielle    May 22, 2009  

    What are the professional seamstresses at your bridal salon advising you to do? A gown usually can be let out at least and inch or more on each side, so you should at least be able to make up two of those inches in that manner.  However, I would follow the experts' recommendations regarding whether or not you would want or need to have a corset inserted.

    I would STRONGLY ADVISE AGAINST attempting any type of crash dieting. It is not healthy or safe, and you do not want to be starving yourself before the biggest day of your life, when you will need all of the energy and strength you can muster to make it through hours of standing, picture-taking, dancing and greeting people.  I have no idea what size you are, and I am presuming you do NOT really need to lose a single ounce even though the dress is smaller than you are. However, if I am wrong, and you do have a few extra pounds to spare safely, it is generally considered safe for someone to lose only 1-2 pounds per week. 

    Best wishes on your wedding!

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    Aw, crap!  I fear this for myself.  I would have it let out a little to save you some stress!

    Ladies, what the heck is "shrink-wrapping"!?  Tell me more.

     
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    ticatica    July 2012   UK

    Crap I'd been worrying about this too. I'd look into letting the dress out a little. Then  continue with the healthy eating and exercise, if that's what you really want to do.

    Only diet suggestion I can offer is that my sister has been on the dukin (sp?) diet for 2 months now and has lost 2 stone (28 lbs).....maybe see if it's something that would suit you??

     
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    mink    June 2012   Charlottesville, Virginia

    9 weeks...over two months? Cut the carbs, up the water, and only have lean protein. Get our dear friend Jillian involved and do one of her DVDs religiously. Also work out a plan with the seamstress.

    Hope for the best, but plan for otherwise with alterations.

    You have time! You don't have to do anything crazy. You just need to make a plan and execute it!

     
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    Meliss1007    October 7, 2012   Massachusetts

    Try the South Beach diet. It's healthy and safe. Phase 1 lasts about 2 weeks- no sugar and low carb (no bread, no alcohol, no fruit). Phase 2 follows and you gradually reintroduce the healthy carbs, a glass of wine a day if you want, some fruits, but still no sugar. It then moves on to Phase 3 which is more lenient. I know people who have lost about 10 pounds in the first phase, and then a pound or 2 a week in the 2nd phase. Google it- tons of info out there. Lots of delicious South Beach-friendly recipes that even my picky carb loving fiancee likes! Not sure what the pounds-inches equivalencies are, but this might help in addition to exercise and the corset idea! Good luck!

     
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    cabincrewkate    February 18, 2012   UK

    @Juliepants:  

    Its when you go to the beauty salon and get covered in shrink wrap (I'm not sure if its called that in America!!?? (microwave plastic??) I think it just dehydrates your skin?? and you temporarily lose a few inches- epic! ;)

     
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    lizzieloverex    January 10, 2004   TX

    When i first got my dress i couldnt even begin to zip it up. Now im so close to getting it up all the way. I have now started Ripped in 30. And it is working a treat. but u only get out what you put in. 3 inches is do able. but you have to want it. more than all the jusk food. I have also started the diet she has recommended. I am doing it through an australia company called  lite and easy. they are supplying all my meals up untill the wedding. If you want it work for it. but you need to have a backup plan. mine is to put a corset back into it.but im nearly there. so hopefully i will get into it...

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    @cabincrewkate:  Ah, thank you!  I will have to google it in case of emergency!  ;)

     
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    JSK    August 24, 2013  

    South beach diet and exercise. I lost 12 lbs in 4 weeks and have been able to keep it off. 

     
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    lunathea    September 15, 2012  

    You may want to try a juice cleanse! Basically you juice a ton of veggies and fruit and that plus water and that's your meals for the next couple days. It cleanses your system and boosts your energy levels. Losing weight is an additional benefit from it!

     
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    elovesm    October 2012   Long Island, NY

    @ticatica:   My mother and father did the dukan diet, and lost a ton of weight! It changes your body shape in about a week. My parents modified the diet a BIT and ate only LEAN proteins. You should definitely try this!

     
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    kaylee26    January 1, 2014  

    You aren't going to lose 3 inches in that time - at least not in a healthy way. Have it taken out if you can.

     
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    TooPunk2bPretty    April 27, 2012  

    Heyhey!

    Definately accept that you aren't going to have to stick to a strict diet for the next 9 weeks. 

    I lost 20lbs in 2 months by doing low carb (and I wasn't hugely overweight...  I went from 150 to 130).  I just didn't eat carbs or sugars... nothing processed.  It was TOUGH!  I'm not going to pretend it was a walk in the park.  You will get withdraw symptoms like crazy those first few days.

    If you have specific questions, feel free to message me!

     
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    june3012    June 30, 2012   Philadelphia

    Juice cleanses like the blue point cleanse work great. You could also workout for at least 45 minutes a day, drink tons of water and follow the NO ABC rule-cut out all alcohol, bread, & carbs-and don't eat anything at least 2 hours before you go to bed. It's definetly possible to heathily lose 3 inches in 9 weeks. Good luck! 

     
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    SandyThePoet    May 5, 2012   Silvis, IL

    On Ebay, there is a corset kit, which can change any zipper dress to a corset back dress. Any seamstress should be able to put it on, it sews right along the zipper line. Just go to ebay and search for corset kit.

     
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    goldendreams    August 12, 2012   Healdsburg, CA

    Ever seen Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead?  Juice fasting-it is a healthy way to lose some weight fast.  You get a ton of micronutrients and you get calories-not like starving or anything (water fasting is a bad idea).  You have to do it correctly though and it has to be fresh juice with vegetables and only a little fruit.  There are tons of books on juice fasting and you can get a good juicer on amazon or something. I am starting my fast on Monday!

     
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    ticatica    July 2012   UK

    @elovesm:  

    Yeah, i've watched my sis struggle with her weight for years and suddenly wham, loads of weight lost in such a short period of time! She still gets to eat lots too!

     
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    alexro    March 31, 2012  

    Thanks ladies! Unfortunately my dress already has a corset back that does not quite come together yet...3 inch gap :o

    I haven't tried to go see a professional seamstress yet in regards to letting it out, but I have been trying to...and am still trying to shed the pounds and will only let out the dress as a last resort.

    I have recently joined Jenny Craig 3 weeks ago only to find I have gained weight rather than losing...

    Am really considering desperate measures...but how far is too far?

     
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    Rachel631    July 1, 2013  

    First, do what the others said. To the dressmaker, stat, and put in a corset back (unless you think it will ruin the look you are going for). Try and have it taken out also... if you can get an extra two inches you can lose the third!

    You don't say how large you are. If you are a larger lady, it may still be possible for you to lose enough weight to get down 3 inches in 9 weeks through diet alone. If not, you are stuck... it will have to be a corset back for you! To put it in perspective, I had to lose 28lb to lose 3 inches recently (I was a bit on the chunky side in my opinion, but officially only a few pounds overweight). But because of the way dress sizes work (they go up incrementally, but you are losing weight proportionately, if you see what I mean) then if you are a larger size, you could do it.

    If you are quite slender already, it won't happen, but you might manage to lose an inch and a half or so... and hope you can get alterations for the rest! Sadly, there's only one way I've found to lose weight and keep it off:

    1. No white carbs. That includes rice, pasta, potatoes, and bread. Now I've lost some weight, I am now facing the fact that if I want to keep it off, I will never be able to eat that stuff again. Ever. But that's OK... I managed to give it up for almost 5 years when I was younger in order to maintain a BMI of 21ish. It was worth it!

    2. No processed food... that includes processed sugar. So no cakes, pastries, crisps, ready meals (the stuff they put in them anyway... yeuch).

    3. Semi-starvation (sad, but true). Ruthlessly control portion sizes. I had to cut down to two very small meals a day and no snacks before I got anywhere weight loss wise... but DON'T be tempted to fill up on drinks! Tea with sugar or even milk, hot chocolate, soft drinks, even too much fruit juice and sugary squash... drink those and you won't lose anything. This is the mistake most people make, including me sometimes! Lots of veg, fish, and learn to LOVE celary sticks and green tea, because they are negative calories.

    4. Bodybuilding workouts (don't worry, you won't beef up in 9 weeks LOL).

    Repeat after me... it's only 9 weeks... only 9 weeks... I can get through this...

    A week before your wedding, cut out all salt, lots of water, shrink wrap like crazy. On the day or two before your wedding, ease up on the diet and eat stuff like brown rice (still no processed food, sugar or salt though) to give you energy for the big day (you will need it). Tell us how it goes!

     
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    alexro    March 31, 2012  

    Thanks for the advice! I will definitely give it a go!

     
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    alexro    March 31, 2012  

    Thank you ladies for all your advice! I ended up reducing my calorie intake with shakes and salad, and joining a Bikram Yoga class 5 days a week...and the end result was that I was able to fit the dress like a glove!

     
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    kaylee26    January 1, 2014  

    @alexro:  WOO HOO! How much did you wind up losing?

     
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    KLloyd1    October 22, 2011   Hilliard, Ohio

    Do not listen to Rachel. Semi starvation is not the key. Any health professional will tell you eat 6 small meals a day. You have to fuel the fire and keep your metabolism running. Have you thought about getting a personal trainer?

     
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    nycsa    May 26, 2013   Poconos, PA

    @alexro:  Congrats!

     

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