Help!! I don't know what to do!!
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Help!! I don't know what to do!

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    ktcheer09       texas

    Hi Bees,

       I've been snooping around here for awhile so I decided to finally post something. I been dating this guy for about three weeks. everything was going fine until he told me a secret. The secret was " that he likes to dress like a girl". I mean the whole nine yards (makeup, heels, etc) I was shocked when he told me that, but he reassured me that he wasn't gay. I told him that it was ok,but honestly I am not ok with it. Now I don't know what to feel. His family doesn't even know about this. I support him,but he wants to continue dating still. Please help me bees!! I don't know what to do?

     
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    little_cricket    August 11, 2012   Bay Area

    If that's not something you can handle now, that's not something you're going to be able to handle in the future. The plus side of this is that you're 3 weeks in, and while it sounds like you have strong feelings for him, you're not too invested. If you can't handle it, don't pretend to or convince yourself that you can. It'll only create a lot of hurt in the long run and can only get worse. I would advice you to really analyze why it bothers you so much. 

     

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