Help! I need some advice..I'm not sure what my husband and I should do:/

posted 3 years ago in Parties
  • poll: What should we do??
    Vegas Bachelorette/Bachelor Party! : (3 votes)
    23 %
    Don't go! Celebrate your 1st Anniversary and save that money for a house! : (10 votes)
    77 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @inlove427:  My advice is to be honest and say you can’t afford it given the other wedding expenses incurred to date and that you would rather celebrate your first wedding anniversary at home together. And then leave it at that. Those are both perfectly acceptable reasons for saying no, and anyone who does not respect that is pretty selfish/immature anyway.

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    1500 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @inlove427:  when your husband’s sister decided on a DW and a destination party, they should anticipate that people – even those closest to them – may not be able to make it. Don’t make a financial choice you two will regret for the rest of your life. They should be understanding of your situation given that it’s also your anniversary! You’re still showing up and supporting them at their expensive wedding. Don’t go to the party

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