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  • poll: Which Dress do you like better for me?
    Dress 1 (more form fitting) : (200 votes)
    79 %
    Dress 2 (ball gown) : (54 votes)
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    SoInLove37    September 24, 2011   Pennsylvania

    Hi Bees! I'm really stuck between two dresses and I need to decide ASAP! They are both such different dresses, but I love them both for different reasons! I want to be a classic, elegant bride that really makes my guests (and groom!) say "WOW!" when I'm walking down the aisle.. Which of these dresses do you think would be best for me?

     

    Dress 1:

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    shellzbellz    June 4, 2011   NJ (getting married in Louisville, KY)

    Dress 1 looks amazing on you!  Rock that body! :)

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    Posted in your other thread too.

    Dress 1 looks AMAZING on you.

    Dress 2 makes you look larger than you are. Still looks very nice, but not as flattering.

    PS we are date twins.

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    Definitely dress 1.  It looks absolutely stunning on you!

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    They are both gorgeous but I pick dress 1

     
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    rolling berry      

    Normally I prefer form fitting dresses, but I actually love this ball gown on you! It's really unique and I would totally get that one!

    Edit: Not sure what the PP's mean about it being less flattering. I actually think it's more flattering on you... It makes your waist look even tinier than it is :)

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    number one! it makes your body look amazing!

     
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    Miss Stella    November 17, 2012  

    They both are beautiful dresses, but #1 really complements your figure! And I love the peek a boo lace :) 

     
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    kittybee    August 26, 2011  

    Both nice but the first is wow! Especially with your figure.

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    I agree that dress 2 isn't as flattering as dress 1, but I can see why you like dress 2 - it has this very romantic feel that dress 1 doesn't have.

    You don't look bad at all in dress 2 - it just doesn't show how little you really are.

    So, if you want romantic go with 2, but if you want flattering go with 1 :)

     
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    vicozzie    May 19, 2012  

    Definetely dress 1- it's beautiful and shows off your figure!

     
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    jenewitt    June 25, 2011  

    I agree with @KatNYC2011 the first dress looks amazing on you, the second is more "romantic" but doesn't show off your gorgeous figure as much!

     
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    MiJuneBee    June 24, 2011   Michigan

    I agree with most of what's been posted.  Both dresses are classy.  But I think you get lost a bit in dress 2, whereas dress 1 really looks like it was made for your body.  

     
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    aguilpul    June 25, 2011  

    I respect everbody's point of view, but I don't understand why the majority voted for number 1. Number one is very pretty and form fitting, but I've seen similar dresses. Number 2 is spectacular! When I saw it I went WOW, she looks stunning!

    Either way, you look very pretty in both, so whatever you choose will look great :)

     
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    rolling berry      

    @aguilpul: Yeah, I had the exact same reaction! That 2nd dress is amazing.

    Seriously, OP, you don't look at all "lost" in the ballgown like some of the other posters are saying. Like I said, normally I don't love ballgowns, but this one looks like its made for you! You said you want a "wow" dress.. this is it :) And... this is the strongest opinion I've EVER had in one of these dress threads!

     
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    tinylittlebird    June 24, 2011   Indiana

    I can see the mixed feelings. 

    I tend to agree with PPs that Dress 2 makes you look bigger than Dress 1, but that could be the result of them being samples. 

    So, which one makes you look "skinny" aside, I personally love the ball gown.

    It's not that I don't like fitted dresses (I almost got one myself), it's more that the fitted dress seems like something I've seen on a million other brides, where the ball gown seems a bit more unique to me, for some reason. 

    That being said- tulle is really fragile, so if you think you're going to be outside much for pictures, or that you might have a clumsy cousin who will step on your train before you have a chance to bustle it, you might opt against the ball gown. It just has a LOT of tulle, and there's a high risk of something getting ripped. 

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @aguilpul: I agree dress 2 is a stunning and unique dress, but in dress two you are looking only at the dress, where as dress 1 I really see both the dress AND the bride.

    OP I feel like you are wearing dress 1 whereas dress 2 is wearing you.

     
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    tntrav44    June 30, 2012   Pittsburgh

    When I saw dress 1, I thought, "Ooh, another mermaid.  Pretty."  Then, when I scrolled down to dress 2, my heart literally skipped a beat.  The draping of the tulle is SO gorgeous, and the beading is so unique.  Although the first dress is pretty, and it does show off your figure, I think the second dress is absolutely stunning. 

     
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    BruinBee    June 16, 2011  

    @SoInLove37:

    You are gorgeous in 1, it looks like it was made for you. I am not a big fan of the second :)

     
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    deetroitwhat    April 28, 2015  

    First one.  Totally honest here- the first pic of the 2nd dress makes you look a lot wider than you really are, and does not flatter your body like dress 1.

     
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    @SoInLove37: You have a gorgeous figure, but I don't believe that the only way to flatter a great figure is to wear a form fitting dress. In my opinion, the second dress does not make you look wide. The tulle does add some layers but your shape means that you can carry that off without looking wide :)

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    I disagree...#2 does not make you look larger...you just are not showing off every curve of your body. You look thin and beautiful in dress 2. You dont have to wear a form fitted dress for your dress to be flattering now matter how much of an amazing body you have. YOu look great in both but #2 says wedding and you are having a wedding and you look so beautiful. :)

     
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    blondilocks    June 11, 2011   Atlanta

    Def the first.  You look GREAT in that one!!

     
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    loveknows    December 10, 2011   Caribbean

    Dress #1!!!!!!!!!!! GORGEOUS

     
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    breezybri19    September 22, 2012   San Jose, California

    I like #2 better, definitely accents your waist, and it looks nice and light and free... #1 looks a little restrictive to me.

     
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    tarheelgrad98    June 23, 2011  

    I almost always prefer a ballgown to a mermaid...I think that because I'm on the boards and reading wedding magazines so much, I'm starting to feel like it's the default style and I always go for whatever's not the most popular.

    That being said, though, as much as I'd like to love the second one over the first one, on you, I just can't. Dress 1 looks lovely on you--well, they both do, don't get me wrong, but I think the first just looks even better.

     
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    EsqBride5810    June 4, 2011   Chicago

    The first one is a "WOW."  Definitely that one.

     
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    Prewitt    June 19, 2011   England

    Adore one on you.

     
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    crystlrox    July 16, 2011   Bermuda

    #2 is just so romantic and has that WOW factor.  Your waist is tiny...I think the 4th pic, the pose is making people say it isn't as flattering, but from the 3rd pic, you look amazing.  The dress is so beautiful.

    #1 is also nice, but like the PP, seen it before, but it looks fantastic on you as well.

    Good luck!!

     
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    farrahfay    May 12, 2011  

    #1 is much more flattering... But the second is more romantic and "fancy". If you are going for the hotness factor I would choose 1, if you are going for the princessy feel I would go with 2. But I choose #1 as my fave! Good luck! :)

     
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    RayRayFurious    May 2013   NJ

    I love both! You've got great taste. But I would probably go with dress #1. Who is it by?!

     
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    kayp23    May 27, 2011   Virginia

    You've got the figure!  Show it off!  Dress 1! 

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    No question-dress 1! It looks a m a z i n g on you!

     
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    Golden139    August 13, 2011   live in Texas, wedding in Michigan

    I'm kind of torn. Dress #1 makes your figure look amazing because it showcases it. But Dress #2 is definitely "classy" and "elegant" which is just what you wanted. The first dress is also classy and elegant, but I feel like the second one has more of an original Wow factor. You can't go wrong with either :)

     
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    FutureMrsTran    August 16, 2013  

    I think dress one is so beautiful and flattering! Dress 2 is nice, but like others said, does not flatter your figure as much! You look amazing in both, though!!

     
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    mightywombat    June 25, 2011   Massachusetts

    I love the design of #2, it's beautiful - but you look so glamorous and sexy in dress 1!!

     
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    jbaby731    June 18, 2011   Philadelphia

    Dress #1 is super flattering on you! I would go with that one!

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I love dress 2!  You look amazing.  It has that romantic "WEDDING!" (it says "wedding") look to it.  I love it.

    PS- I think it depends what you want.  If you want classic wedding and "wow" -I would choose dress 2.  If you want to look hot/ sexy- choose 1. 

    PPS- They both look lovely though!  You can't go wrong, you beauty.

     
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    jbaby731    June 18, 2011   Philadelphia

    @SoInLove37: Is the second dress from PoB in Ardmore? I'd recognize that place anywhere since I'm there a couple times a month!

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    @SoInLove37: #1 makes me go WOW for sure!

     

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