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posted 2 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Which dress do you like better?
    Jim Hjelm with ruffles : (97 votes)
    75 %
    Monique Lhuillier with tulle : (32 votes)
    25 %
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    sassitude99      

    Hello Bees!

    I've been in love with the Jim Hjelm dress below for about 4 months.  I've gone to two separate appointments to try it on and for various reasons (shipping issues, etc) both times the dress was NOT at the shop when I arrived for my appointment I was completely devasted and in tears the second time and was thinking this was not for me because of the bad luck. However, I'm finally going to try on the dress this weekend and I'm so, so excited! Here is a link to the Jim Hjelm dress where you can see multiple views of the dress: http://www.jlmcouture.com/Jim-Hjelm/Bridal/Fall/2009/Style-8962

    Because I've put so much weight on the Jim Hjelm dress being "the dress" I've been trying on dresses this week just in case I need a backup if the Jim Hjelm doesn't work out. So today I fell in love with the Monique Lhuillier dress below.  I love how it's a fairy tale like dress. The one thing I'm hesitant about is the dropped waist. I also wanted to note that I'd wear this dress with an ivory sash and not the brown one that is pictured.

    Since I'm not pictured in the dresses here's a little bit of info about me ...I'm 5' 7" and street 6 with dark brown hair. Any helpful thoughts and opinions are appreciated!

    Thanks bees!

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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    They're both gorgeous!! 

    But I'm all about some ruffles. And some Jim Hjelm. 

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    I'm not really a fan of the second one... but the first one is dreamy!!!!!!!!!!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    i LOVE the second dress.. it's such a happy dress for lack of a better word... i can imagine twirling in circles in that dress... have you tried either of them on, do you have pictures in them?

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Hands down my favorite is the Jim Hjelm!

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    nitjaO_o    =(   NY, ny

    keep the first One...! i like it the mOst...

     
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    futuredrbraun    May 15, 2010  

    I'm in love with Jim Hjelm dresses!!! I voted for the first one, but hesitated for a while because the second dress is very gorgeous too! I don't think that you could go wrong with either of them :)

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    i love both...just a little teeny bit more partial to the monique...because of barbie...

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    mandalee0624    October 2, 2010  

    I'm a bit bias b/c the Jim Hjelm is one of my dream gowns...

     
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    ricki3    september  

    Jimmy! I am wearing this dress for my wedding ! it is soooo dreamy and romantic! a realy show stopper!

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    I have to be honest.  I love Jim Hjelm, and my sis wore a Jim Hjelm gown at her wedding and I almost picked one out all the way back when too..and it's gorgeous!

    But I have to go with my gut on this one, and my gut says Monique all the way!

    I love the idea of a darker ribbon at the waist, doesn't have to be brown, just in your colors as I think it's so darn slimming as an effect and the whole lines of the dress are just drop.dead.gorgeous.

    You picked out two winners, and they're both lovely.  But the one with the more 'oomph' is to me, the Monique Lhuillier. 

     
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    arizonabride    June 2, 2010   Tucson, AZ

    I like the ML as well, but both are beautiful dresses. You're 2 inches taller than me and a size 6, so I'm sure you can do the dropped waist!

     
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    Bellini    January 1, 2011   Washington, DC

    ooohh please please please choose the Monique! i'm sorry, i'm drooling over it :)

     
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    Bellini    January 1, 2011   Washington, DC

    hey, wait, what month is your wedding? and what's your venue?

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I love, love, love the Jim Hjelm! I think it is absolutely gorgeous (although the other dress is too)! But I just love all the ruffles! So beautiful!

     
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    Sydney1111    June 19, 2010   Ypsilanti, Michigan

    They're both absolutely gorgeous, but I prefer the first one.  I don't think you can go wrong with either one though! 

     
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    jingle96    May 28, 2010   DW in ARUBA/livin' in VA

    I'm a HUGE Jim Hjelm fan!  And I love the first dress, its even prettier in person!

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I love love love the first one!

     
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    DCarole    11/14/09   Dallas

    I love the first one too!

     
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    realeastcoaster    July 11, 2009   Canada

    Jim Hjelm! Jim Hjelm! Jim Hjelm!

     
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    Thanks for all the comments & votes!  I just got a call from my bridal consultant and she is overnighting the ML dress for my appointment so my MOH, mom and dad can see me in both dresses this weekend!  I am SOO freaking excited!

    Bellini - Our wedding is in July 2010 in NJ :)

     
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    lkbphmd    August 7, 2010   MN (ceremony in Omaha, NE)

    That JH is just fantabulous!

     
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    PetiteCupcake    8/28/10   Philadelphia, PA

    Love the Jim Hjelm!  There's a bridal store on my jogging route that I pass every morning and that dress was in the window well before I got engaged... I loved it even then!

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    I LOVE the Jim Hjelm dress. It looks like it would be the most flattering on any woman, too. While I think the Monique dress is truly beautiful, I think it could easily overwhelm someone, whereas  the Jim Hjelm dress would accentuate all the right things :)

    I voted for Jim Hjelm.

     
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    hisbunny    March 13, 2010   ND

    I love the ML and the dropped waist.

     
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    Miss Yap    02/20/10   Dallas

    Is there pictures of you in it? If you can pull off the Monique Lhullier Swan Lake, I think that would be perfect.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I love love love the tulle of the second one but not so much with the bow, the first is great as well!

     
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    tenmylove    August 22, 2009   Wisconsin

    MONIQUE!!! I can't believe that one is losing in votes! It was such an easy choice for me! I don't like the brown sash though, that would have to be changed :)

     
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    bostonbridey    October 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    tenmylove-i couldn't agree more!  i LOVE the Monique!!! and I am a huge fan of Jim but th Monique was such an easy decision here for me too! 

     
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    bostonbridey    October 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    the color of the sash on the jim on the monique and LOVE it!

     
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    sunshinebride    July 30, 2010   California

    Jim Helm all the way!  So gorgeous!

     
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    Vitsippa    October 10, 2010  

    I LOVE the Jim Hjelm with ruffles!!!!

     
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    aplusb       Washington, DC

    Oh, ML's Swan Lake...if I could have any dress ever, this is probably the one I would wear... (except it looks horrible on me :-( Too curvy to pull off that look)

    These are both beautiful, and you can't go wrong!

     
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    lagunasummer       Colorado

    The Jim Hjelm with ruffles is so beautiful!! I love this dress.

     
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    ricki3    september  

    Jim is the way to go! You won't be sorry... 

     

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    I think I voted for the wrong one! I LOVE the first one :)

     
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    stellar1126    June 19, 2010   Los Angeles

    I think that Jim is a popular designer but personally I think that the Monique is an elegant one of a kind. The Jim is a little too tame, and slightly prom like. The Monique is something that is unforgettable. I think the other is kind of safe. I really hope that you get the Monique! ") Good luck!

     
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    hltruax    March 20, 2010   Weirton, West Virginia

    I LOVE the first one and if you are 5"7 with dark brown hair you will look like the model!!!! lol

     

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