(Closed) Help LDR!

posted 6 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
740 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

Before you run off with someone you have to be 100% sure,

If you truly love them i say why not, i am sure theres schools there where he is?

end of the day you have to do what makes YOU happy, no one else



Post # 4
18645 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Are you going to be able to go to school there?  Since you two are about to be married, you need to think about your long term life goals and what works best for both of you.  It will be tough moving where he wants you to be without knowing anyone and having no job or school to attend and keep yourself busy.

Post # 5
2414 posts
Buzzing bee

If the wedding is already planned and you *really are* getting married, and the date is set and you have the ring and the invitations are being ordered and all of that… for me there would be no question. I would leave and go to be with him, and start fresh from there.


Are your parents saying they want you to stay put until you’re done with nursing school? If so I wouldn’t agree with that. Your future is with your fiance. Maybe others would disagree, but I would be packing my bags like yesterday.


Now if the wedding were a maybe, we’re talking about it kind of deal, then no I wouldn’t move and uproot my life.

Good luck with whatever you decide!

Post # 6
1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with @MissAsB.  My bff moved from Boston to Chicago because her husband had a fellowship at the hospital there.  Fortunately, for the both of them, they both finished school (grad school for one; medical school for the other).  And, the move proved difficult for the both of them.  They have very little friends and not much else going on except work.   And, I know a few couples who moved because one of them was offered a great job that ended in divorce/break-up.  The resentment does build up.  Only move if the both of you can have what you want. 

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