Help me decide who to invite!

posted 3 years ago in Family
  • poll: We're close to my mother's family, not my father's... who should we invite?
    All of nothing - invite both sides or neither side : (2 votes)
    50 %
    Mother's side only : (2 votes)
    50 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    203 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I would probably suggest discussing with your father first, to see what his thoughts are.

    In the end, it’s your wedding and I wouldn’t invite any people I wasn’t close to.

    Post # 3
    Member
    7840 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    If they’re in another country, there’s a good chance that those who don’t feel close won’t come anyway.

    I think, for the sake of family harmony, you should invite both sides, or at least the aunts and uncles (but not cousins) on your father’s side. I’m guessing most won’t come anyway. And if anyone does care enough to buy a plane ticket, then I think it’s worth making room for them.

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