Weddingbee boards

I'm a long time reader but newly engaged and now turning to y'all for some personal help.  My search for a wedding photographer has kind of gone pear-shaped. It started simply enough with the list my venue gave me of photographers they love.  We'll the FH and I fell in love with one Anna Kuperberg, whose work is amazing, but whose style is amazing, but whose price tag is out of reach for us. Then I searched some more and fell in love with another photographer whose style is totally different, Thayer Allyson Gowdy. Again - what is it with my VERY expensive taste in wedding photographers... again out of my budget! :(

Now I'm looking for a wedding photographer and I feel like I'm spiraling out of control.  I need someone to slap me across the face and tell me "get a hold of yourself woman!" and I also need help to find someone who as the amazing angles and ability capture emotion that Anna has, coupled with the warmth and classicness and framing that Thayer has.  Is there anyone out there that you know of, this magical person who might also live in the Bay Area? :) Please bees - help a sister out!

Budget is around $5-$6k for 8 hours, digital images, and 2nd shooter. 

Thanks in advance!