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Help me pick my center stone

posted 1 year ago in Rings
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  • poll: Round or Princess?
    Round : (83 votes)
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    Princess : (25 votes)
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    Cushion : (32 votes)
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    Round or Princess?

    Here is the link so you can see what it looks like with each stone...

    http://www.shaneco.com/Catalog/ProductDetail.aspx?X=41042382&O=Nav&C0=1&C1=3&ST=Matching+Sets

    Help me pick my center stone :  wedding Setting

     
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    magilnyc    January 8, 2011   New York

    This is such a personal decision. Any diamond would look good in this setting.

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    In this setting I would personally go with round. I don't know if you neccesary need to match the shape but I like round with round.

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    I agree that I think a round stone would look best with that setting.  The harsh 90 degree corners of a princess would clash with the delicate pave band.  Just my two sense... but you should go with what you think is most beautiful on your hand!

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    I vote round or something with more rounded corners (like cushion). I have a cushion cut stone on with a pave band and it looks gorgeous (if I do say so myself).

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    @KatNYC2011: I thought about a cushion at first but the ones they showed me weren't very impressive.

     
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    lisalew5472    September 29, 2012   Friendswood, TX

    oh yeah - cushion all the way!

     
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    Goldilocks1107    September 2010   Madison, WI

    I like the round with that ring. And from what I've heard, when you have similar carat size, round diamonds tend to look larger than princess cut ones. If that matters (or is even accurate).

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @ella86: Here's mine:

    Sorry for the cell phone pic. It's a radiant cushion so it really sparkles.

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    Misstnt    October 9, 2010   WI

    I personally like oval cuts!  ;-)

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    jo.lee    September 10, 2011   Indianapolis

    My setting looks exactly like that and I love it with my princess-cut! :) I'd say just whatever you want to put in there will look fantastic.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    @Ella, then you must've seen some crappy cushions! I have a "modified brilliant round" which a fancy name for a cushion and it is fantastic. But the specs on it are good, too, so think about that!

    I like it because, frankly, everybody i know has a round or a princess and I like to go against the grain, so this is sort of the best of both worlds =]

    A friend of mine has a radiant, though, and holy smokies it's gorgeous.

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    I am going to have to go back in there and look at center stones again, lol. When we first went to pick out the ring I asked them to bring out round, princess, and cushion cuts. I only looked at one cushion so maybe they have others that are more "cushiony". The cushion I looked at was more elongated with rounded corners which I wasn't too fond of.

    I love the way princess' look but I absolutely love the brilliance of rounds.

    I also think that on my petite hand princess' look harsh on my size 5 finger and stubby hand hahaha. I am definately going to look at cushions again.

     

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Ella, my cushion is almost a perfect square. They come in all kinds of shapes. i've seen a couple of elongated ones, though.

    As far as facets, mine is actually cut to have more facets than a traditional round. So they can be cut super duper sparkly, too. I've also seen some dull ones--it seems like they're sort of a strangely cut diamond in that you KNOW a princess has 4 90 degree angles or a round is round, but a cushion can be all kinds of wonky.

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    @ejs4y8: I am definately going to look into it. Thanks so much :)

     
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    messybride    November 13, 2010   Illinois

    @Misstnt: I love yours! Mine is very similar! Just a cell phone pic so it isn't the best quality Help me pick my center stone :  wedding IMG00043 20100209 1907

     
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    missbiscuit    March 12, 2011   Sonoma County, CA

    I was told by our jeweler that round cuts reflect light FAR better than square.  Not sure how that translates into cushion cuts, though I do like the look of them.  I'd vote for round or cushion.

     
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    Miss Bella    October 15, 2011   Blue Bell, PA

    I like them all!  But I have a princess cut with almost the same bands and I don't think it looks bad at all!!  You should try some on in a store and see which one looks best on your hand!

     
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    bridecat200    February 19, 2011  

    What a lucky girl! Both bands are beautiful.

    Personally I am a round cut stone girl myself. After thinking I liked Princess or Cushion my fiance and I went shopping and I realized how hard it was to compare prices on "different" cuts. Also there were so many grades and different shapes it was hard to decide.

    We found that the round is classic and using the jewelers GIA reports we could basically compare apples to apples. Otherwise it was too hard, we were sure if we were getting ripped off or simply being charged too much.

    Have you looked at any center stones yet?

     
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    pansyshell    October 8, 2010   Central Pa, Wedding in Outer Banks, NC

    I personally love a princess cut. However, a round cut is the most geometrically sound and is going to give you the most reflectivity, so if how much your ring sparkles matters to you, you might want to take the into consideration. But really it's a personally decision.

    I actually have a HOF with a Dream cut diamond which has the look of a princess but the properties of a round. Let me just say that baby shines! (color and clarity also factor in as well)

     
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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    "I thought about a cushion at first but the ones they showed me weren't very impressive."

    I have a square "hearts and arrows" ideal-cut cushion diamond, and it SPARKLES! Like seriously blinding in the sun. I, too, would say you just weren't shown very good cushions.

    In my opinion, cut (cut quality, not shape of cut) is the most important of the 4-C's. The better the quality of cut, the more fire and sparkle you get.

     

    I would also advise getting a stone from a reputable online vendor rather than a traditional jewelry store. I got my diamond from GoodOldGold and it appraises significantly at more than we paid. (We paid 2/3 of what the diamond's appraisal value is.)

    At GoodOldGold, they show you all the different imaging, details of where any inclusions are, etc. All greatly magnified, so you really get a lot more information than you would in a regular jewelry store. And you can download the "Gem Adviser" file that simulates how your stone will sparkle based on the angles.

     
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    kaybee    December 5, 2009   Oklahoma City

    I love the round because it looks very similar to my rings!

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    princess poolau    October 11, 2010  

    mine is an oval in basically that same setting. don't have a pic on this computer, but its my avatar.

     
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    quirkyparsnip    October 1, 2011   Texas

    I say cushion (with a L/W of 1), but round would also look great. 

     
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    mandalee0624    October 2, 2010  

    Round or cushion

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    @bridecat200: Yes, I currently have a round set in it.

    We are going back in today to look at some more cushions.

     

    @abbyful: It wasn't so much that the diamond didn't sparkle. It reflected light beautifully I just didn't care for the shape of this particular cushion.

     
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    Prettyinpink89    January 1991   N/A

    Princess (>.<)

     
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    mundaetraversa    October 9, 2010   Richmond, VA

    I think princess is the most beautifully cut stone, but I am biased because I love them, and wear one!  I also like cushion cut stones because they can be very unique, but I agree with posters above who mentioned that they can be poorly- or well-cut.  Be careful out there in diamondland!

     
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    Blondee    August 24, 2012  

    I have almost the exact setting, and my center stone is a Princess cut :)

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    We went back today and looked at all 3 shapes again...

    I pretty much ruled out the princess right away. I think I like it on other people's hands but not mine. It just didn't look good.

    So I was down to cushion and round. I loved both.

    Ultimately I stuck with the original. ROUND. It just sparkled so wonderfully, complimented the setting and my hand, plus it will never go out of style.

    Thank you to everyone who put in your two cents. I really appreciate it. When I get my ring ( I beg for it everyday!) I will be sure to post the final result! <3

     
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    MissCosmopolitan      

    With a 6-prong setting, a round would look more at home. :)

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    @MissCosmopolitan: The prong heads are interchangeable so it could be switched to a 4 (which I think I am going to do anyways).

     
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    Sabrina_Lee    October 15, 2010  

    what is your finger and hand shape?

    its its short and small  like mine princess cut  would look great

    if the finger isnt too short or too small a round woull look lovely

    so its really up to you hand shape but its a lovely set ^_^

    even with out the center stone

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    @Sabrina_Lee: I actually feel the oposite. As I stated above I have very small hands but feel the princess looks too harsh and awkward on my small hand. I like the way the round cut is softer. Thanks for helping though!

     
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    AnneNM82    June 12, 2012   Nebraska

    I have a round stone, which sparkles A LOT, but I've kind of been crushing on the cushion cut look lately. So pretty! It's all just a matter of knowing the facts (which sparkles more, etc.) and knowing your own preference. :) 

     

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