Post # 1
So my FI was giving me an impromptu shoulder massage and made the comment, “I bet I give you more massages than most men give their woman.” I’ll save you the rest but let’s just say he was tootin’ his own horn for a bit. Of course, I disagreed with him but that was probably because I just want more of them! I told him I would poll the hive to see how lucky… or unlucky I am. So, tell me … how often do you get planned or impromptu massages (literally anything….from a minute to an hour or more)?
Post # 3
DH knows I have a really troublesome neck and often goes out of his way to rub my neck a little when he hugs me. He knows massages are my favorite so I’d say at least every day he rubs my neck or shoulders, even if it’s just for a few seconds. They’re always under 5 minutes, though. Any longer than that and it turns into, uh, not a massage anymore. Of course it doesn’t help that every time he squeezes on my shoulder or neck i go ‘yes please’ and encourage it 😛
Post # 4
Probably once a year if I’m lucky!
Post # 5
I usally have to ask for massages…but he will generally oblige whenever I ask lol
He rarely just starts giving me a massage
Post # 6
If I want a massage, I have to ask for one and it normally comes with a catch. So I would say that you’re pretty lucky. =)
Post # 7
We pretty much never give each other massages. If one of us has a knot or a muscle seizing up, then we will, but other than that not really. It’s usually me who has the knots though when it does happen.
You are all lucky for getting massages on a regular basis!
Post # 8
NEVAH get one .. i GIVE them cause he has a bad shoulderr … but i’m jealous of you ….. i even got him a FOOT massage at a spa for christmas .. yeah i’m jealous
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Post # 9
He just comes up to me and starts rubbing my back, legs, and feet. Sometimes I’m taken off guard and get a little annoyed (I know, lame) but for the most part it feels great! I’d say 10+ times a week! He also scratches my back pretty much everynight b/c it gets itchy, I have no clue why!
Post # 10
We usually give eachother a massage every day after work. We have been doing this since we first started dating 5 years ago! LOL. We LOVE it! We do shoulder and feet 🙂
Post # 11
@iheartnerdyboys: i know. did it sound like my response thought otherwise?
Post # 12
I rarely get an impromptu massage from DH! I have to ask for him to give me a massage or a back scratch!! You are a very very lucky woman!
Post # 13
Almost every night 🙂 I ask for about half of them though. And gets one every night before bed, while he’s falling asleep. They’re not full out massages though, just like 10 minutes or so of light rubbing/scratching.
Post # 14
My FI will rub my back or shoulders at least every time we see each other (we don’t currently live together yet) i will rub his back as well its become a second nature thing we are always touching each other at some point or another (sounds kind of sappy but its no over kill) and if he’s staying over he will rub my back while i fall asleep ohh i love that 🙂
Post # 15
I’d say about once a week.