help me with bridesmaids please

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1765 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@heaveninheels:  go with friend a….it seems you have a history…..and seem closer….dont worry that you werent in hers….my good friend is my BM,and i wasnt in hers, (mainly because she had her sisters and a few closer friends) but we have grown closer since hers…and its not wierd to either of us that i wasnt in hers and shes in mine…so dont let that be a factor!

Post # 4
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588 posts
Busy bee

@heaveninheels:  I would ask them both if you care about them, honestly.  

Friend A might not have had you in her wedding party because her bridesmaids fit a ‘theme’ (ie. mutual friends of the bride & groom) or she just didn’t have enough room at the head table. It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t care about you.

Friend B sounds like she suffers from depression. That doesn’t mean she can’t be there for you, but ask her if she would like to and feel up to it and know that her mental health might not allow her to at the last minute (and that has to be okay with you).

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