(Closed) Help!!! Might have to replace bridesmaid!!!!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I replace my bridesmaid?
    yes : (10 votes)
    71 %
    no : (3 votes)
    21 %
    other - please explain : (1 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1308 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would first apporoach your FI and tell him how this is making you uncomfortable….if he OK’s you dismissing her as a BM, then go to her to talk.

    Tell her that it was important to your FI that she be in the wedding party, but you feel that it is not so important to her. offer the choice of stepping down.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2877 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    i dont see how she can be a bridesmaid if she isnt attending the wedding – you said its on a cruise and shes not going

    therefore….its more of an honorary position no?

    Post # 7
    Member
    7879 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    So long as you can sort out the RSVP issue, I don’t think she’s actually done anything bad enough to replace her. At the very least you (or FI) should first talk to her and work out why she’s ignoring the MOH. The party, well she has a prior engagement so that’s understandable.

    Post # 8
    Member
    749 posts
    Busy bee

    I think you should talk to your fiance about it first, and then her.

    Post # 10
    Member
    7879 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’m glad that’s sorted. I’m always reluctant to remove someone, but since she didn’t care about being in it. it seems to have resolved itself with no hard feelings. A happy ending!

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