- 7 years ago
Okay, so here is the issue that is keeping me up at night!
My BF and I live with his mother in a rental property. She is currently unemployed on a pension and suffers from anxiety and depression.
BF and I have been seeing each other and living together for almost 3 years, his mum with us for around 1.5 years.
I get along well most times with his mum, but she knows no boundaries!
She does Bf’s laundry for him, that’s fine.. but once came into the lounge holding my lingerie asking me how i wanted it washed!
She comes into our room while we are at work and strips our bed sheets without asking and cleans them, putting new ones on.
She lets herself into our room to open the window to let air in when she feels free, she I don’t know our window is open and freeze my butt of at night.
My problem is that although she is trying to be nice, i feel like i have no privacy.
BF is an only child and is used to this, so he say’s he is fine with it and if I’m not i should take it up with her, but i just don’t know how!
Im so worried it will make this bad between us, or that she will have a breakdown (depression) that I seriously worry myself sick over it!
I moved out of home to live independently with my BF and didn’t sign up for this! She told us when she asked to stay it was going to be for 2 months.. that was over a year ago!
I know i should say something but i don’t know how!
I’m paranoid about what i leave laying around our room or what she might be doing in here while we are away and BF isn’t phased at all!
Please give me some advice! I’d love to just put a lock on the door but we can’t cause we are renting!