Help: my FI doesn't want my friend's BF at our wedding

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
7025 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If you don’t invite him, there’s a good chance it will ruin the friendship with your friend. Explain that to your FI – that inviting him is the lesser of two evils.

He’s an a-hole but he’s not going to disrupt the wedding, so he won’t spoilt your day.

p.s. the girl is your friend not his, so it’s not your fiance’s decision to make. *He* can’t make the decision to ruin *your* friendship.

Post # 3
3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Yuck. I think Aussiemom is right. You have to invite him. Unfortunately, there is no way to prevent our friends from making stupid choices, and in this case you’re basically stuck.

(Just out of curiosity, what did your girlfriend think about her boyfriend being such a douche to your FI?)

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