- 3 years ago
- Wedding: March 2015
I was having a chat with my FI today about a very good girlfriend of mine and for some reason he said: “her boyfriend isn’t coming to our wedding, right?!” 😐 Now, no one likes this guy (and when I say no one, I really mean NO ONE!) and he wasn’t very nice to my FI at my birthday party (he called him gay and “uptight with a pole up his a$$”! all because he didn’t want to get drunk with him as it was MY birthday) as well as not being very nice to my girlfriend by trying to flirt with other girls (and trying to flirt with me as well!).
I honestly don’t like the guy and my friend knows that and I think he’s the wrong person for her. The problem is they are about to get engaged so I can’t really invite her but not him.
I love her and she’s one of my closest girlfriends. I can put up with him for 1 day but my FI is really concerned he is going to ruin our day by upsetting everyone with his attitude and behaviour.
I obviously want to stand by my man’s side but I also want my friend to come to the wedding. What should I do?
Please help me as I really don’t know were to start from.
Thanks bees 🙂