- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2018
Hello Bees! I need some help
My Maid/Matron of Honor is NOT the dress type…AT ALL! I’ve known her since 4th grade when we were both about 9 years old, I’m 33 now btw. She is my very best friend in the whole world and I love her dearly!
Well…ever since we were teenagers we would joke about IF I ever got married (we didn’t think I ever would lol, I was very free spirited and too independent lol) that she would wear a dress no matter what. LOL…well, now the time has come that we have never thought would happen haha, and we are faced with what she will wear. Not a big deal right…? Well…
She is a bigger girl and she’s gay. Not butch gay, but not girly at all. Her typical attire is jeans (men’s jeans) and a t-shirt or polo…khaki’s and a polo if she’s at work. She said she would wear anything I wanted her to-dress included. I just can’t do that to her…for one, it wouldn’t be her at all, for two, she would be SO uncomfortable…and finally, bless her heart, I know she would only be doing it bcause she thinks I want her do, which I don’t. I’ve told her this already. I cringe when I think of her being that uncomfortable for a whole day.
So, she’s been looking for a nice pants suit to wear…the other BMs are wearing long flowy pink dresses. The guys will be in formal suits also. I think a pants suit will look really nice on her also.
So, can my super awesome bees offer some suggestions on a nice formalish pants suit for my darling MOH? I would so much appreciate it!