(Closed) help needed, big decision to make… :/

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: which date make more sense for me and Fi
    stick to the Christmas wedding : (20 votes)
    91 %
    Move to Summer Wedding : (2 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5423 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 2012

    It really is your decision.  I say keep winter.  I would hate to wait even longer than I already am.  It seems like winter is an ideal time just not ideal financially.  Also, I don’t understand why you would need to provide cloaks?  For your guets?  And this might be a cultural thing but to save costs I wouldn’t provide 2 full meals.  If you feel you should, I suggest a lighter one then a heavier one later.  I wouldn’t like my FI working more to fund it either.

    Post # 4
    Member
    701 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2004

    i dont think you have to supply cloaks for anyone, they know you are getting married in the cold and should rug up! you will get beautiful pictures with the snow, also are you against getting photos before the actual ceremony, you wouldnt have to have other people there.

    hope this helps!

    Post # 7
    Member
    444 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    I say do it now… if you’ve gotten a lot of planning done already, and don’t want your man to have to work long hours to pay for it all.

    Post # 9
    Member
    5755 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’d keep the December date too…

    Post # 10
    Member
    780 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Trust in your fiance….  go with the December date. πŸ™‚

    Post # 11
    Member
    1571 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Winter, winter, winter!

    Post # 12
    Hostess
    23639 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I agree – trust your FI! Plus, he can’t wait to marry you, it’s really sweet! πŸ™‚

    Post # 13
    Member
    254 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Keep the date for December.

    About the second meal: why don’t you just do a dessert buffet or coktail hour style food. Don’t provide a whole seperate meal. (or do this vice versa- lighter meal in the middle of the afternoon and heavier in the evening).

    As your guest I would only expect food once. 

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