- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
Okay, long story. I have been friends with this girl since we were 14, I am now 26. I recently got engaged and asked my best friend to be my maid of honor. She has a lot of baggage, but i love her. I kinda have always felt like her friend and not really cared for by her. She isn’t in a happy relationship right now, and I worry about her. A LOT. She values her friends that have stabbed her in the back, rather than me. I don’t know what to do right now. I am stuck, and feel I dont have a friend. She was offering to help, but I really didnt have anything planned yet. I was trying to figure out if my fiance and I could pay for the wedding. We were broke at the time, and we didnt know how it would work out. It finally did, needless to say. Planning commense! She was all excited about going to a bridal show with me, she didnt have to go. I was happy that she wanted to though, we planned a weekend of looking at dresses and stuff too. Well we were looking at dresses and all of the sudden her mother starts texting… My best friend never answers my calls hardly at all. just fyi. anyone calls she answers, but me. Well her ma lives further away like 50 min. She decides to dump her child on her daughter, my bff. She drives all the way out to the store in the middle of our day. This is any everyday occurence since she was younger. her ma has never liked me, and knew we had this day planned. so she drops the adorable lil one off, and hasnt even fed her. omg. this lady just is psycho, and cares about her time. I acted like it didnt bother me, but it bothered me. I was mad that her ma would do that to my bff on her very few off days. so we were suppose to go to that show, which i didnt want to put that kid through. come on. kids dont like wedding stuff, i dont that much. 🙂 anyways we kinda got in a tiff about it, she thought i was mad at her, which i was NOT. now, she will not talk to me, at all, no email, messages, calls, nothing. I even met up with her the day of the show and took her and sis to lunch, and just had a fun day of girl time. still nothing. i am hurt, because i feel i care so much, but am almost done with all the drama. i need some help with this, sorry it is so long. she is a friend, but it is almost too much to deal with. plus her ma is her guest, with the lil one too. since my moh is the babysitter every weekend. she is complaining about the money issue with traveling. i know it is expensive, but no one else has said anything, and i am really looking for a good deal. it is so stressful. ahhh. i really want to have everyone there we care about, care about us, etc. please. i care for this girl, but she doesnt care about me anymore. i have tried to even set up girl time, but nothing. i dont know if she still wants to come.