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HELP PLEASE!!! Do I need to buy a new dress?! Wedding's in two months.

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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    I've had my satin wedding dress for over 3 years and I've been absolutely in love with it.  I hadn't really thought much of season/weather because I've had it so long and have been dead set with it.  However tonight when watching "My Fair Wedding" the guy was stressing the importance of seasonal wedding dresses.

    I can live with heat and sweatiness for just those couple of hours when we're outside under the sun taking photos.  If I'm outside I don't care.  But the rest of the time indoors like the ceremony and dancing the night away I want to be feeling comfortable. 

    My wedding is in August.  Two months from now. I'm in NYC and it can get real humid out here.  I'll be wearing the dress beginning at about 12 pm in my parents' house, to the limo, waiting outside in the limo for my father and I to be called in.  Ceremony's at 2pm about an hour in a church, photos outside for an hour, then reception in another building from 5-10 pm.

    This is a SATIN gown and I'm reading on some posts here that satin is too heavy for the summer.  I don't really know makes a "heavy" wedding dress and what's not.  Now, it's from David's Bridal, so maybe their inexpensive "satin" is not as heavy as it might be in a more expensive dress?  I don't know, I've never worn any other kind of satin bridal dress. 

    I'm planning on wearing no pantyhose and I'll also be wearing sandals to keep me cool.  I will be getting a bustle, so the train will be up during the reception.  The church and hall are air conditioned. But we definitely want to spend our photo hour outside. 

    This dress is now at my parents' house and it's been there for a while.  So I can't try it on at the moment.  I'm going there next weekend anyway to put on the dress to see if the silk bouquets coming in the mail in a couple of days will look right with it.  Yet another reason I need to figure this out -- b/c then I might have to send back the flowers!  I'd bought the bouquets to match the dress. Now I DO have the option with this great flower company to send the flowers back and choose others and I'd definitely get them on time, but I'd hate to go thru all that.

    In another week and a half I have an appointment at DB (for the first time in three years), for my very first alterations.  But I am worried that the appointment will end up being one where I will have to get a new dress.

    But I'm willing to do that if I have to. Be honest, what's the best way to go?

    It's a David's Bridal dress, described as a "strapless satin A-line gown with beaded embroidered lace bodice and draped organza skirt.  Features beaded organza tails and chapel train.". 

    Below are different photos.  The first is the official DB advertisement.  The ones after that are public photos I found online of two girls who wore it. 

    THANKS SO MUCH!!! :)

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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    I think your dress will be fine for a summer wedding.  My dress has heavy beading and same fabric with the overlay and my wedding is in June.  I am however changing for the reception, but that is only because I found that dress first and I truely love the dress.  Other than that, I would dance away the night in the long dress and not even think twice about it.

     
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    JoJo Bananas    August 21, 2010   Santa Cruz, CA

    I'm also wearing satin in August at 2pm in a church wedding.

     
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    farmersdaughter    June 26, 2010  

    I think you'll be fine. Your main events are indoors, anyway - if it were me, I'd stick with the dress you have, especially if you already love it!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I really don't understand why you wouldn't wear it. It doesn't matter what the season is, in my opinion. If you love the dress, you will feel good wearing it. I don't think it looks out of place for your wedding at all. I will be wearing a very heavy satin and lace gown in March. Some people might think that it is the wrong look, but I really don't care. It is my day and I am going to wear the gown that I love on my day. You shouldn't care what the TV or other people say. Do what you want; not what they want.

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    ok, phew!  this is good to hear.

    but really, even if i love it, i would get another one if i have to. i want to be comfortable that day and have fun dancing, not sitting down b/c I'm hot and tired from dragging around a dress. so please don't be afraid to tell me you think i should get a new one, lol.

    @noritake: i totally agree with you, i don't care how it looks/style/what people think. my concern is that it might be too hot/heavy and that i'll be sweating/tired and then not have a good time.

     
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    EncoreBridal       Los Angeles, CA

    August in NYC is warm even in a bathing suit.  Yes, you might be slightly less warm in a dress with a lighter fabric (ex. chiffon), but it won't make that much of a difference for the one hour you are outside taking pictures.  I definitely think you should keep this dress if you love it. 

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    You could always get a "just in case" reception dress. And change into that if you get to hot. I really think you should wear this gown for your ceremony though.

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    very happy to hear all of this.

    i'll give the "just in case" reception dress some thought. probably the people helping me with alterations at DB could give me opinions too.

     
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    brittanymichelle    June 5, 2010   Cheyenne, Wy

    i wore satin just last week for my wedding, and i was fine!

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    You'll be fine.  All dresses are hot and sticky and uncomfy.  Unless you were wearing cotton you would have to deal with this with any dress.  Trust me, the day will go by so fast and you'll be having so much fun you won't even notice the dress.

    My dress was hot and heavy and I hated it up until my wedding day, but on the wedding day I barely noticed it.  I still had a great time dancing and eating and everything!

    Keep the dress you have, it looks gorgeous on you!

     
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    TingTing    September 12, 2010   Los Angeles

    don't stress yourself out over what the guy from my fair wedding said! he has to overreact in everything to make the show interesting. your wedding gown looks great! ;)

     
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    Ladyjenn    October 4, 2009   Northern CA

    I wore a huge taffeta dress, that dress is very light and perfect for Summer!

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    When I'm at DB on Saturday getting my first alterations done, I'm going to look around for reception dresses.  The more I think about it, the more I like that idea.

     
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    Lucy10    October 2, 2010   Ontario

    @bridepower:

    I think regardless of the material you're going to be hot because it's summer.

    If you love your dress than wear it!!

     

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