Help please with the most ridiculous question I've ever asked in my life

posted 3 years ago in Paper
Post # 2
2529 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

If you’re bothered by it, then send them back. As a guest, I wouldn’t think anything of it. I can see why this would bother you. Is it worth the aggravation of sending them back?

Post # 3
519 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I would want them to match

Post # 4
574 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

it would bug me but as a graphic designer anything that doesn’t match (or at least compliments each other in their contrast) would bug me. i’d send them back

Post # 5
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

HA! I totally feel your pain. I’ve been agonizing over white or ivory table clothes for like a week. What happened to the laidback bride I used to be?!


That being said, I would send them back and get the ivory. But I don’t think anyone would notice or care.

Post # 6
8587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

It would bug me because I’m a perfectionist, but your gusts probably won’t notice.

Post # 8
2867 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

If you’re asking the question, then it bothers you enough that you should send them back. 

Personally it would bug me. For me they would have to match or be obviously meant to be different. Those are more of a ‘close but no cigar’ combo. 

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