(Closed) HELP!!! Postpone or Cancel???

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: To Cancel or Postpone.... that is the question?!
    Cancel : (1 votes)
    10 %
    Postpone : (9 votes)
    90 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    466 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2011 - Sweet ceremony by the sea and sunset celebration on the North Shore of Hawaii

    I’m sorry to hear you’re going thru this. I’d suggest compromising w your FI and postpone it far out enough that he also feels comfortable. You paid your deposits and don’t deserve to lose them!

    Post # 4
    Member
    4547 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    That’s a difficult situation. It’s difficult to say without knowing WHY your FI wants to forget about being married for the time being. Does he still want to get married or by “forgetting about it for the time being” mean he just doesn’t want to deal with the stress of planning a wedding at the moment? In the end, only you and your FI can decide what is right for you. I’d suggest sitting down together and getting a clearer idea of why you each feel the way you do and trying to compromise.

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