- 3 years ago
Hello, I have been planning on proposing next week however my girlfriend got a phone call yesterday her grandma will be going in for open heart surgery this week.
we have both talked befor about marriage, there has just not been an official proposal yet, she does know its comming though as she helped pick out her ring.
her grandma is very important to her and i know she would like her to know she is getting married.
should i propose now so we can tell her grandma incase the worst happens? or should i tell her grandma my plans and wait for the actual proposal?