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HELP! Should I get a facial 5 days before the wedding?

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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    Ok, I called the salon I go to just now just now to ask them what exactly they use in their facials.  I can't understand a word they say (they're Chinese) in English.  They're fabulous, I love them, I've gone to them for a year and a half but on the phone it's impossible to understand them. :)

    I should have asked this last week when I was there.  But I don't know what chemicals are used in the facials.  On the phone just now the lady (who knows me) said "natural," and "don't worry don't worry" when I tried explaining why I was concerned. :)

    When I was there on Sat. getting my nails done the lady told me I should get a facial the week before my wedding.  Unfortunately I couldn't go exactly 7 days before due to an appointment.  My wedding is on Sat. the 14th, but on Sat. the 7th we have an appt. at the hall.  Sun. the 8th the salon is closed.  I asked them if I should therefore come on the Friday the 6th or the Monday the 9th and they said I should come in on the Monday the 9th.

    Then I read later in my bride's book, and it advised not to get a facial within a couple of weeks before the wedding, in case of an adverse reaction.

    So, would a "natural" facial be ok five days before the wedding?  Now in case it matters, I've been taking a skin medication the last few months, "Erythromycin and Benzoyl Peroxide Topical Gel, USP" for acne.  I was also taking Retin A but it ran out so I'm just using hydrocortisone 1% cream (read you can use that for acne scars though not long-term b/c it can thin your skin).

    The lady also implied the facial would be effective for my acne.  There is certainly small acne that my medication doesn't seem to be hitting.

    Thoughts?  Thanks! :)

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    Hmm...the word facial anywhere near my wedding week frightened me. I didn't want to be completely red and blotchy b/c of a bad reaction to a facial. I vaguely remember another bee on here who had a facial right before her wedding, and she had a horrible allergic reaction that wouldn't be cleared up in time. I can't for the life of me remember who it was...

     
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    LindsayJeff    May 15, 2010   Rhode Island (wedding in MA)

    I went a week before my wedding day and I was fine, I think the estetician said anywhere between 7-10 days was a good time frame pre-wedding. Good Luck and Congrats!

     
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    JenniB    June 26, 2010  

    I had a facial the week of the wedding, but it was just a skin freshen/brighten treatment with no extractions.  The salon uses Dermalogica, and that's all I used on my skin.  I would not do it unless you are 100% confident in your aestetician and you are familiar with the product line. 

     
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    AllynK43    October 9, 2010   Knoxville, Tennessee

    Usually the redness goes down in a day or two, and if you are going to an Aveda salon, they use really natural products (which is also why they are more expensive, I assume) and the redness goes away faster.  I think a week is good, but five days should be fine.

     
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    Mrs. Louboutin    July 2010  

    I had a faceial two weeks before my wedding, another one week before my wedding and the day before my wedding.  Granted, I'm a regular there, I know exactly how my skin reacts and these were oxygenating facials, which are revitalizing - no extractions.  It just brightens me up. 

    If you haven't had a facial there before and don't know how your skin will react, are you really willing to chance it?!

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    I would never trust a facial on my sensitive skin that close to my wedding....

    Also, "Natural" doen't mean you won't have a bad reaction. I hate it when companies market things as "natural" and imply that their safety is somehow tied up in that. You know what else is "natural"? Hormones. Venom. Radioactivity. There are all kinds of fillers and compounds never tested for their ability to damage human cells and/or cause cancer - I know, because I test natural compounds for their ability to kill bacteria (work for a drug company). It's really frustrating that "natural" has become a trendy key word for "better" or "safe".

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    ANOTHER THING:

    I REALLY REALLY WANT TO GET A TAN (JUST A LITTLE). I WAS GOING TO GO TO THE BEACH SUNDAY (DAY BEFORE THE FACIAL).  MY FACE WILL PROBABLY GET A LITTLE RED/IRRITATED.  BUT SINCE I'M A LITTLE DARK, THAT GOES AWAY BY THE NEXT DAY.  BUT BY THE TIME THE WEDDING DAY COMES AROUND SIX DAYS LATER IT WILL LOOK GREAT.  BUT IS IT A GOOD IDEA TO GET A FACIAL THE NEXT DAY FROM THE BEACH, EVEN IF THE FACIAL IS "NATURAL," IF MY FACE IS A TEENY BIT SUNBURNED?

     

     

     
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    bridepower    August 14, 2010  

    @crayfish: lol.

    Ok. I think you guys are right.  I think I'm going to cancel the appt.

    Plus, I don't know if it's such a good idea if I've got a little sunburn and a facial the next day.  And it's much more important to me to get a little tan than a facial.

     
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    tintine1    October 2, 2010   Las Vegas

    I was told to book it 2 weeks out, which is what I did.

     
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    menobride    June 5, 2011   NH

    I definitely would not do it that close to the wedding. Sometimes, breakouts that are dormant under ths skin break through after the facial. I have broken out many times after a facial. Give it at least a couple of weeks.

     
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    sarahsd    August 14, 2010   San Diego

    Don't get a little sunburn!  Use sunscreen. You will still tan.  You don't want to peel!

     
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    evalague    June 28, 2011  

    I always get zits after facials so no facials for me (ever!).

     
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    evalague    June 28, 2011  

    @crayfish: LOL @ the.. "You know what else is natural" comment!

     
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    Miss Sparklespaniel    November 13, 2010   VIC, Australia

    I would avoid it! Nothing worse than having a bad reaction to it and your skin in more likely to react if you've been out in the sun. My sister has put a blanket ban on all facials/face masks/ anything for the bridal party before the wedding!

     
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    pat291    July 17, 2011   canada

    NO Don't Do it! Horrible idea!

     

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