(Closed) Help! Should we change our date?

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think that you should absolutely change it!  Like you say, no one has booked hotels yet and I think if anything they will be so happy not having to worry about choosing which wedding to go to!  I think you should just send out a new save the date ๐Ÿ™‚  Do what is best for YOU – you seem so happy at the idea of changing it ๐Ÿ™‚  It’s a win/win!

Post # 4
591 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - St. Philip Catholic Church/Arcadia Brewing Co.

I think you could push it back. Just send a cute little card out saying “we’re pushing it back” with a cartoon of people pushing something. (Or something like that.) 


Best of luck!

Post # 6
483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If I was in your shoes, no, I would not change it.

If Fiance is OK with losing the deposit for the photog, why not just lose the deposit, keep your date the same & find a new photog?

But, I think from your post you have already made your decision.  ๐Ÿ™‚  And no, it’s not rude to change your date, just be sure to let people know before they book travel/ take days off work.

Post # 7
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

sounds like you have lots of reasons to change, and few to stay with your date. i think you should just send change the date cards and go for the fall wedding.

Post # 8
7904 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Change it and send out new save-the-dates with a note that the date had to be changed and you apologize for any inconvenience. 

Post # 9
795 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - Four Rivers Environmental Center

Sounds like a good idea to me with your reasons! Besides fall weddings are BEAUTIFUL.
If it weren’t for my fiance still being in school we would have definitely done that instead of summer! 

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