(Closed) Help—Shower and Registry pondering

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: What would you feel is the best choice
    Have a bridal shower with gifts and only invite wedding invitees : (2 votes)
    40 %
    Have a bridal shower with gifts and invite guests that will be invited to reception in the summer : (1 votes)
    20 %
    Have a "no-gift" bridal shower for guests : (1 votes)
    20 %
    You're having a destination wedding. No shower required! : (1 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
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    1361 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    You’re never REQUIRED to have a shower. The idea that it would be unfair to your family/friends/guests to NOT have a shower is a little ludicrous to me.  That being said, you should never invite people to the shower who aren’t invited to the wedding.

     

    Post # 4
    Member
    1375 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    It is still a good idea for you to have a small registry for your at-home reception.  Some people will want to get you a gift, even if they didn’t travel to Mexico to see you get married.  Create the small registry (I’m sure you’ll need some upgrades – nice sheets, new towels, those cool kitchen gadgets you’ve been wanting) so people won’t get you 12 ceramic roosters.

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