(Closed) HELP!!! The ring is…

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think it’s absolutely gorgeous, but I can understand if its not what you expected. I would give it a few days though. To think after awhile of staring at that beauty, your mind will change!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If you wanted something so specific, why didn’t you just pick it out?

Post # 6
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Busy bee

@oneofthesethings:  +1.  

@littlelu:  you seem to very specific about what you didn’t want..men don’t work like that. You should have just told him specifically what you wanted. 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

that looks great! but is there any way you could return it or exchange it?

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 1998

Maybe you will learn to love it.

I would hate to hurt my SO’s feelings on a material thing. Yeah I would be disappointed

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Its gorgeous!

ETA: I read the post wrote and posted an answer and realized it didnt apply sorry 🙁 But it really is a gorgeous ring sweety

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

From the picture, it looks as if he did listen to what you told him.  The ring appears to be rose gold, and the halo is a rounded square.  The fact that many rings with halos will require custom wedding bands or gaps between the e-rings and wedding bands may not have been something that would even have occurred to him if he were just trying to meet your other qualifications.

I’m sorry you are disappointed in the ring, and I’m not suggesting that you can’t try to exchange or change it. However, I think you should give your FI credit for having listened to you, because it appears that he did try to get you much of what you told him you wanted.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I think that the ring he gave you felt right to him when he saw it. The picture you attached/ emailed him wasnt in rose gold but you mentioned to him you like rose gold. Maybe he was confused to the specifics but He tried at least. Sleep on it and decide later how to handle. 

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