(Closed) Help! Trying to decide who to have as a bridesmaid.

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My opinion…

Just have your sisters and best friend. They are the girls who have been there through it all and who will remain in your life most likely forever.

Your friends at work are probably going to understand why they aren’t in the wedding party… I think leaving it at 3 is sweet and short and eliminates awkwardness for anyone else not asked since you are having the people most dear to you.

Post # 5
815 posts
Busy bee

I agree with artsprout–it is probably easier to have your best friend and your sister as bmaids.  But, if it’s really important that you ask your friend at work then you should do it.  It may be a little uncomfortable from time to time with the girl you didn’t ask.  So just agree not to talk about wedding plans when she’s around, in case she’s bothered by it. 

Post # 6
83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

ask the people who you feel will give you the best support along the way and on the wedding day.

i asked the girls that i knew would still be ‘my girls’ when me and Fiance celebrate our 25th anniversary!!


Post # 7
393 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Whoever you decide, make sure they are not people who will stress you out. make sure they are people who will be there for you, make sure they are dependable. I made the mistake of not doing that….

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