Sign up   Login  
Sell car for higher wedding budget?
more by jwdesiree
As a guest at a wedding, what day of the week/meal would you attend?
I don't even know what to titke this, but its going to be a long one
more in Relationships
Funniest (or most infuriating, at the time) thing Your SO has Done--Stories!
Altering your dress design?
more in Boards
Waiting....show me your rings to tide me over!

Help us top our non-traditional Valentine's Day (just for fun)!

posted 3 months ago in Relationships
  •  
    1.
    Member
    465 posts
    Helper bee
    jwdesiree    April 12, 2014   Denver

    Hi Bees!

    So a few years ago, before ever spending a Valentine's Day together, now-FI and I got to talking about the holiday. Like many men, FI expressed a general dislike for the holiday (mainly due to the pressure that some women put on it, not so much the romance/celebration of love aspect... thank goodness)! I told him I had never been a huge fan of the holiday and not to feel any pressure. Then I got an idea...

    It just so happened that a monster truck rally was coming to town that upcoming Valentine's Day. Armed with this new knowledge, I proposed that we do a sort of anti-romantic (i.e. no pressure) Valentine's Day. Monster truck rally instead of a movie. Wearing our monster truckin' finest instead of dressing to the nines. Drinking the cheapest beer/shots instead of nice wine or martinis. Eating wings instead of... well, anything that requires silverware. A swing through the Burger King drive-through for our romantic dinner. And the rest of the evening at a dive bar (with a quite appalling name, I might add).

    It was the best date I've ever been on. We could not stop laughing/smiling/having fun (which in turn led to kissing/"I love you"s/romance [I guess I'm crafty like that]).

    Anywho, now we don't know how to "top" it... so what are some silly ideas for our next non-traditional Valentine's? And please, this is just for fun. I mean no offense to those who enjoy doing really romantic, sweet, and/or "traditional" things.

     
    2.
    Member
    3,666 posts
    Sugar bee
    deetroitwhat       

    I posted this in another thread, but in my eyes, you can't go wrong with a shit bitch bear.

     
    3.
    Member
    465 posts
    Helper bee
    jwdesiree    April 12, 2014   Denver

    @deetroitwhat:  Literally laughed out loud. Laughing out loud, actually. Love this.

     
    4.
    Member
    3,666 posts
    Sugar bee
    deetroitwhat       

    @jwdesiree:  You can totally buy one online, too.

    I think any man would be proud to own one lol!

     
    5.
    Member Icon
    Member
    15 posts
    Newbee
    lipsmackerin    Array   waterbury, ct

    i say karaoke. i had one of my first dates(neither of us knew was a date then) with my now FI at a dive bar singing off tune renditions of "love shack" and "when i touch myself" (after a few shots of patron i might ad). its definately somethng we wont forget!

     
    6.
    Member
    88 posts
    Worker bee
    scottie    July 6, 2015  

    Aa few years ago Mr Scottie and I went abseiling for our non-traditional valentines!

     
    7.
    Member
    1,127 posts
    Bumble bee
    suburbian    August 17, 2013   Michigan

    I think you would need a card too...

     
    8.
    Member
    465 posts
    Helper bee
    jwdesiree    April 12, 2014   Denver

    Aaahahaha, these are great.

     
    9.
    Member Icon
    Member
    1,195 posts
    Bumble bee
    Serey        Ontario

    @deetroitwhat:  OMG...I swear all of your post always cracks me up!! Thumbs UP!! haha

     
    10.
    Member Icon
    Member
    1,195 posts
    Bumble bee
    Serey        Ontario

    @suburbian:  lol awesome idea!!

     
    11.
    Member Icon
    Member
    99 posts
    Worker bee
    heidi_p1215    July 4, 2014  

    I posted this in an earlier thread as well...


     

    Aside from the card, my SO and I always joked about going to a completely random restaurant and/or bar where we know no one, and talking in accents all night...while making up a completely untrue story of why we are there. Still waiting to do it! :)

     
    12.
    Member
    4,324 posts
    Honey bee
    Caroheart    August 31, 2013   NJ

    Hmm, what's better than monster trucks? How about... yeah, I'm not creative enough for this. But I'll come back and tell you if I think of something lol. For the record, I'm pretty sure my FI and I are buying ourselves a new TV for valentines day, and then sitting in front of it all night in pajamas eating popcorn and playing video games.

     
    13.
    Member
    505 posts
    Busy bee
    Kjeff760    September 13, 2012   Littleton, Colorado

    We are doing a brewery tour, and maybe a Brew Cruise, and then going to a hockey game. Grabbing Chipolte for dinner....very romantic lol

     
    14.
    Member
    1,393 posts
    Bumble bee
    eocenia    August 3, 2013   Toronto, Canada (wedding in Sweden)

    My FI and I don't like the over the top Valentines either, so we tend to come up with alternative plans. One year we went and saw the Body Worlds exhibition (story of the heart), another we went to a hockey game. Last year we ordered lots of sushi and had it with bubbly at home. All things that feels very US and not fake.

     

    So you could perhaps go and see some game, or go rock climbing!

     
    15.
    Member
    2,534 posts
    Sugar bee
    Brideonabudgetlauren    October 21, 2012   Columbus, OH

    @jwdesiree:  You win at the game of life!  This is so freaking awesome and hilarious!!!!!

     
    16.
    Member
    3,666 posts
    Sugar bee
    deetroitwhat       

    @Serey:  hahaha well thanks :) 

     
    17.
    Member
    3,666 posts
    Sugar bee
    deetroitwhat       

    @suburbian:  that and the shit bitch bear would be golden.

     
    18.
    Member
    4,198 posts
    Honey bee
    beachbride1216    November 2, 2013   St. Augustine

    Bowling, Thursday is usually a league night so I would assume it will remain the same, darkened alley it is all year.  We really have fun taking over the local seedy bar in the bowling alley after bowling a few games.

     
    19.
    Member
    1,127 posts
    Bumble bee
    suburbian    August 17, 2013   Michigan

    @deetroitwhat:  I went to the site the card was from from and bought three of their cards today. I couldn't resist. One of them says "I love you more then Kim Kardashian loves attention" - its for my sister :)

    Not telling which one I got for the FI but here's the link: http://www.etsy.com/shop/FunGirlsCards?ref=seller_info

    @Serey:  @jwdesiree:  Just tagging you guys so you get the link if you want it :)

     
    20.
    Member Icon
    Member
    166 posts
    Blushing bee
    Cabbagefairy    November 1, 2014   Melbourne

    We were going to have a romantic dinner at taco bill, BUT then KFC so kindly posted us a flyer offering us a glorious discount if we would choose to dine with them. Nothing says romance like greasy chicken.

     
    21.
    Member
    880 posts
    Busy bee
    sehrler    August 25, 2012   Long Island, NY

    I know you said you didn't do movies, but we are going to do a non-Vday movie, the new Die Hard opens that day.  Gonna be fun!

     
    22.
    Member
    465 posts
    Helper bee
    jwdesiree    April 12, 2014   Denver

    I love ALL of these ideas! And I play hockey, so that wouldn't be out of the ordinary, ha! :)

    @Brideonabudgetlauren:  Lol, aww, shucks. Thanks!!

     
    23.
    Member
    519 posts
    Busy bee
    Kit_Kath    April 1, 2014  

    @sehrler:  "we are going to do a non-Vday movie, the new Die Hard opens that day."

    Wrong, Die Hard is totally a V-Day movie.  What could be more romantic than an aging Bruce Willis blowing things up in Russia? Wink

    We are also going to see Die Hard.  It's gonna be awesome.

     
    24.
    Member
    165 posts
    Blushing bee
    zackmarriesamber    March 24, 2014  

    @deetroitwhat:  Hahahah! That's too funny!

    @heidi_p1215:  I need this card. I got one for FI that says "the lights. the tv. your pants. Things that I want off tonight" or something like that

    @suburbian:  Thank you for that link! I'm stocking up on cards as we speak... :)

     
    25.
    Member
    2,887 posts
    Sugar bee
    icetea    June 22, 2013   WA

    We're huge movie people...but never sappy movies.  We have a Christmas tradition of seeing a horror movie every year on Christmas day.  Sometimes we have to rent LOL.

    But I'm thinking of taking FI to the dollar theatre to watch some crappy movie of his choosing :)

     

    Oh!  Another thing I think is fun...but I'm kind of materialistic...is when FI was a kid his mom would give him 5 dollars to go into the dollar store to buy presents for his fam.  So sometimes we do this, sometimes not even 5 dollars, but we just run around finding the weirdest crap for the other one.  Wrap it.  Open it...eyes roll around in head from confusion and disgust.  Fun times :)

     
    26.
    Member Icon
    Member
    99 posts
    Worker bee
    heidi_p1215    July 4, 2014  

    @zackmarriesamber:  I just folded a piece of construction paper and made it myself! Easier than ordering, and waiting for a delivery! :)

     
    27.
    Member
    465 posts
    Helper bee
    jwdesiree    April 12, 2014   Denver

    I'm not doing this (it's anti-VDay, because it's a single's event, and I'm--well, NOT single), but I thought it was hysterical :

    There's a bar around here doing an event called "Love Sux" and if you bring a "shredded, torn, or mutilated photo of your ex" you get free entry. There's also bottomless Coors Light. 'Cuz it's classy.

    Hahahahahaha.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.

    No tags yet.





    Copyright 2004-2013, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee


    More
    User Posts Today
    MrsPanda99 64
    Laurenplusalex 50
    mrsSonthebeach 48
    lia 47
    pengoala 45
    badabing88 42
    joya_aspera 41
    julies1949 40
    weddingbound 40
    TaurianDoll 37
    User Posts Today
    MrsTee 15
    stuckinwonderland 7
    Overjoyed 5
    badabing88 5
    lia 4
    relaxedabout it 4
    kes18 4
    tmsing 4
    MrsPanda99 4
    MrsLongcoatPeacoat 3

    Favors by Weddingbee

    Shop Now ยป


    Relationships

    More