(Closed) HELP: wedding date etiquette advice!

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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227 posts
Helper bee

It is a bit much since it’s SO close to your wedding, but I’d try to just see it as the beginning of a two-week long family celebration. I don’t think there’s any standard etiquette for this. But yeah, I’d feel slightly annoyed if I were you. I just don’t think you stand to gain anything by holding a grudge, and trying to put a positive spin on it will help you enjoy everything more. 

Post # 4
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369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’d be upset too, but really there’s nothing you can do about it but suck it up and keep all of your plans for your wedding super secret.

Post # 5
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418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I’m with your fiance on this. Her wedding is her wedding, your wedding is your wedding and unless they’re on the same day, there is no problem. Why you’re upset is beyond me. However, if you don’t want your wedding that close to hers, then change your date.

Post # 6
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1066 posts
Bumble bee

 What can you do? Suck it up or post pone. My sister did the same thing. I  did post pone my wedding date, with reasons that I wanted to enjoy her wedding without the stress of having to plan my own 🙂 But if yours is a destination wedding it is possible everything is already planned, and cannot be changed. It will only bother you if you let it…xx

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