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HELP--Wedding dress overemphasizes hips!

posted 2 years ago in Dress
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    Hi Bees,

    I was pretty happy getting my wedding dress for a good deal, until I got it in recently and realized it WAY overemphasizes my hips. I have a slight "pear" shape to my body, with a small waist, small bust, and proportionally larger hips. My dress is a strapless dress that is halfway between an A-line and mermaid style, so it hugs my hips pretty tightly. The dress is nonrefundable, and I can't afford to buy another dress!

    Any suggestions on how to fix this? Do you think a seamstress could help? Or would adding an accessory (a ribbon) around the waist de-emphasize the hips?

    Thanks!

     

     
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    Charm bracelet    July 24, 2010   Placentia, CA

    Hey, it's your first post - Congratulations!  That is a tough spot your in.  Can you take it a seamstress and see what she thinks can be done? It might not be to hard to turn into more of an A-line if they alter it.  I have no idea on dress structures though.

     
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    We may need pictures to help, but I bet it is lovely and accentuates more than it overemphasizes. Both a seamstress or ribbon belt might help make you feel more comfortable!

     
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    I'd have to see a pic to give you more detail, but depending on the fabric, I bet you could make a mermaid into an a-line. Or at least soften the look.

    Also, the hourglass shape is beautiful. Can you try rockin' what you got? Laughing

     
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    BeachyBride2010    Jan, 2010   Jamaica

    Rock those curves!

    How about a big blinged out/chunky statement necklace too... Sash at the waist may be just the thing too... we need pictures!

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    Welcome to Weddingbee!!  We're glad to have you here.

    I just wanted throw in that you shoudl get the opinion of you mom, sisters, friends, etc.  I had a friend who is pear shapred (as am I!) and she wore a more mermaid style form fitting dress, and it was super sexy!  She really pulled off the hip curves.

    It might be easier to help if you share a picture with us...but you have some good ideas already!

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    Hey MissPear - sounds like we are in the same boat, and I have decided I'm going to put a sash around my waist to define it more. My dress sounds a lot like yours and I feel like it makes me look much wider in the hips than I actually am. I photoshopped a ribbon onto it and I think that that will do the trick.

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/photoshopped-dress-or-real-dress

    Here's the link to my post on that, and you can see the pics with and without the ribbon/sash.

     
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    AFishCalledPuddles    2010 (tbd)  

    Congratulations on finding your dress!  Don't be so hard on yourself - we are our own worst critics!

    You could always do a longer veil (anything longer than your hips - just to create a longer line or to avoid *stopping short*, as they say) and what about adding a little extra padding in the bust to help balance out your silhouette? 

    Also, if your shoulders are narrow (i am not sure if you just have a smaller bust but wider shoulders or have both a smaller bust and smaller shoulders) you could also consider weight training to slightly build up the shoulder muscles for more visual balance as well.

     

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