(Closed) help! wedding here party there invitation confusion

posted 9 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I don’t think your 3 catagories should be a problem, as long as you keep 2 things in mind:

1) Make sure YOU can keep them straight, with a spreadsheet program, a recipe box with marked catagories, etc. Make sure that people get the corresponding invitation to go with their STD!

2) Try to reduce the chances that people find out about the “other” catagories, especially those who won’t be invited to the Seattle wedding. This means you can’t split up groups of friends, family, etc. So if one person from (for example) your FI’s College friend group is invited to both events, then everyone from that friend group has to be invited to both events. This should help to avoid any hurt feelings about being “left out” from one celebration or another.

Post # 4
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1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

As someone who’s just sent out invites and I only have one guest list, not even an A or B, some people still were inadvertantly forgotten, I do not recommend going this route with 3 guest list. The problem isn’t now, it’s later on when you’ve got a million more things to worry about, that’s when problems will arise. I don’t want to discourage you from doing what you’d like, I just thought i’d share my experience.

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