Post # 1
I, as well as 3 of my BMs, are still in school. The week of my wedding is finals week, and one of my BMs graduates that Friday (and our wedding is on Sunday… two days after her graduation).
I’m collaborating a little with the planning of the party, and I can’t think of a good night to have it lol. I know graduation is really important to my Bridesmaid or Best Man, and I don’t want the wedding or subsequent parites to overshadow it and lessen her experience.
I did suggest we maybe go barhopping at a big shopping compex nearby, which eliminates a lot of planning anyone would have to do — we can just get stupid penis hats (or whatever you buy for a bach party) and just have some drinks! But that doesn’t solve the problem of WHEN.
Any suggestions? How many weeks before the wedding is it appropriate? 1? 2?
Post # 3
I would do it anywhere up to 6 weeks before the wedding. I’m assuming this will be either May or December. If May, do it right before you get back from Spring Break. If December, Thanksgiving weekend might be good.
Post # 4
There is usually like a reading day between the last day of classes and finals starting. My school has it in the middle of the week, but depending on who else you want to go you guys could do it that night and then it would still leave you guys tie to study for your finals. and that would probably put it a week or 1 1/2 before the wedding
Post # 5
As above. If you schedule it about 3 weeks before finals week starts, your friends will have fun , then be able to buckle down for that last minute cramming.
Post # 6
Kk. I wasn’t sure how far before the wedding it can be. 3 weeks sounds like enough time where we shouldn’t be studying yet.