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Help!!! Which Sapphire should I choose? (Pics Included)

posted 9 months ago in Rings
  • poll: Which Sapphire should I choose?
    The old fashioned cut one : (12 votes)
    17 %
    The round brilliant one : (57 votes)
    80 %
    I'm torn, can't decide : (2 votes)
    3 %
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    Hey Bees,

    My fiance and I are currently designing my upgraded engagement ring which will be the same design as picture 1. I adore the colour combination of rose gold and a bluey/green stone (Picture 2) so I've been looking at some gorgeous sapphires the jeweller has provided. The problem is that I'm so stuck! I cannot decide between the 2 stones!

    Picture 1- Ring design- features a halo surrounding the centre stone

    Help!!! Which Sapphire should I choose? (Pics Included) :  wedding sapphire choice ring 23

    Picture 2- The gorgeous colour combo that I'd love- please note this centre stone is apatite.

    Help!!! Which Sapphire should I choose? (Pics Included) :  wedding sapphire choice ring 34

    As a side note, I'm not bothered by which stone has the higher carat size :)

    Here's the first stone, I adore the colour; how it's green around the edges and blue in the centre. It's an old fashioned cut (which is rare) which, to me, shows off the colour more than the sparkle. It's .9ct and it's clarity is VS2, it's also unheated. My only concern is that, with the bezel setting, the light won't catch it very much and that it won't sparkle however it is closer to the apatite in looks...

    Help!!! Which Sapphire should I choose? (Pics Included) :  wedding sapphire choice ring Sapphire

     

    Here's the second stone, gorgeous colour again however it's cut in a round brilliant style, making it very lively. It's 1.23ct and VVS clarity, this stone has better clarity and carat size than the one above. I'm not sure whether this stone is too lively, although it may look better from a distance compared to the first one...

    Help!!! Which Sapphire should I choose? (Pics Included) :  wedding sapphire choice ring Stone

     

    Opinions would be great! If you have an old fashioned cut sapphire or a lively sapphire feel free to post pictures :)

     
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    Moja Milosc    September 24, 2011  

    #2 is beautiful. They are both nice, and the color of #1 is cool, but the second one incorporates both the colors and has sparkle. I vote #2 for sure...

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    I prefer stone #1 :) Beautiful ring, btw!

     
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    ThePrincessMaggie    November 5, 2011   Iowa

    I like #1 A LOT

     
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    chellology    October 21, 2011  

    I really love #2!!  They are both beautiful but I just feel like #2 has a little something extra special about it!!

     
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    GreenEyedMoon    January 14, 2012   Dallas

    I'd vote for #2, but it's a really tough choice!  You couldn't go wrong either way.

     
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    Thanks ladies, I'm so indecisive! Everytime I decide on one, I can't stop looking at the other...hmmm...

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    @LaraW: I would just decide if color or sparkle is more important to you!

     
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    Loribeth    December 1, 2010   Michigan (Married in Savannah, GA)

    I like #2.  

    You should add a poll. 

     
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    Just added the poll ^.^

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    I prefer the second one because it is clearer. However, I think the best idea is to give the poll a day, then for one whole hour "wear" the decision to get whichever one wins. Tell yourself thats the one. And see how you feel. Are you happy? Or are you secretely rooting for the other one? I feel like sometimes just making a decision either way lets you know how you really feel. 

     
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    mousegirl    May 20, 2011   New Mexico/wedding in Asheville NC

    I'm in the minority, but I like the first one. The color won out for me, I like the way it transitions from green at the edge to more blue in the center.

    CorgiTales has a great suggestion! :)

     
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    @CorgiTales: Thanks for the advice! I'll definitely give that a try :)

     

    @mousegirl: That's my favourite part of that stone, how it fades from blue to green ^.^ 

     
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    Keisha In Love    March 31, 2012   Chicago, Illinois

    I voted for #2 because I am a sparkly gal and i love the unique color....  but I really like CorgiTales idea...

     
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    @Keisha In Love: Thanks for the post!

    Think I might be going for number 2, I love both of them however my fiance prefers the sparkly one, it would make the stone more special knowing thats the one my fiance would want to give to me :)

     
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    SandyDollHair    September 3, 2012   Vancouver Island

    I like number one!

     
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    @SandyDollHair: Thanks for the reply ^.^

     
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    rachgirl82    December 15, 2011   FL

    Ok, I'm torn- I love the color in #1, but am all about the sparkle of #2... either would be beautiful really. If it were up to me, I'd probably end up going for the sparkle in #2 Laughing

     
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    kperry3    January 1, 1991  

    Definitely number 1! I love it :)

     
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    @rachgirl82: Thanks! I had exactly the same thoughts as you, I preferred the colour of the first but thought it needed more sparkle, I thought that from a distance it wouldn't reflect much light. The second one is super sparkly and is still a beautiful colour, plus fiance definitely preferred that one :)

     
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    Mrs.Anchors    May 28, 2011  

    #1

     
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    linguo42    February 27, 2011   Vancouver, B.C.

    The colour in the first one is just stunning! What a unique stone. For coloured gems I will almost always go for colour over clarity, so that would be my pick. I think it could definitely use a bit of a polish, but other than that, who needs sparkle when you can get lost in those hues?

     
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    TheMrs2013    June 8, 2013   NH

    Wow, I can see why this is such a hard decision! The first one is beautiful, I love the color, but I loved the depth/clarity of #2 so that is the one I voted for. 

     
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    Nellular    October 6, 2012   Ashburn, VA

    Go sparkly! Having a sapphire myself, I know that the facets really help it "wake up". When there's no light on it, though still beautiful, it's very quiet. But when it catches light it's absolutely breath taking. I have to admit, when I stop at red lights, I try to find a ray of sun in the car so I can make my sapphire dance. HAHA. And every different light will catch a different blue tone. You're gonna have so much fun with it. :)

     
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    LaraW    August 10, 2012  

    @Nellular: Thank you! I've gone with the sparkly, the rings currently being made and I'm so excited! I'll be sure to upload some photos ^.^

     
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    blu77    October 2011  

    I agree, go sparkly!

     

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