- 7 years ago
So to sum up my original post, FI’s brother/Best Man married a horrible person he barely knew and has since regretted it. She cost him his job in a remote area where decent work is scarce and he now depends on this person he can’t stand for living situation.
She has started treating him better the past few months so he wanted to thank her by inviting her to our wedding (he previously told us he does not want her there as she may destroy or steal things)!!! They have practically $0 so they expect that either we put them up in a hotel for 2 nights or they sleep in our room the wedding weekend and that we buy her a dress or she will show up in sweats in addition to the cost of having them as regular wedding guests. It’s so ridiculous but too long to get into.
Now my FIs brother/best man has turned so far the other way as to say he is no longer coming if we don’t have her there and cater to her. We won’t give in but how do I make my Fiance feel better that his brother/best man may really not come to our wedding over a woman he barely knows and usually dislikes??