(Closed) Help with Guest List issues!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I would invite her sinc she has gone out of her way to help.  I am having a small intimate wedding w/ as well.  Its primarily both of our families and a couple of friends.  I wish I could invite more ppl but I’m inviting my friends who have been w/ me through the various phases of my life.

Post # 4
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2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I would invite her sinc she has gone out of her way to help.  I am having a small intimate wedding w/ as well.  Its primarily both of our families and a couple of friends.  I wish I could invite more ppl but I’m inviting my friends who have been w/ me through the various phases of my life.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m one of those people who firmly believes you are never OBLIGATED to invite anyone. We’re not inviting people just because they invited us to their wedding, or they’re close friends with our parents, or they’ve offered to help, or they’ve sat there giggling over wedding details with me. We’re inviting people we love and who we can’t imagine not being there.

Now, that being said, my caveat is that I don’t accept help from people I’m not inviting. When people ask if they’re invited (yes, they actually do this), I say regretfully that since we’re paying for the wedding ourselves, we selected a venue that is on the small side and we can only invite immediate family and very close friends. 

I would either invite her, or have a conversation with her about it. It will work out fine either way. But if you don’t invite her, stop accepting her help 😉

Good luck!

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