Help with invite etiquette

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
1881 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Yes, you send invites to the groomsmen! Everyone who is invited gets an invite. Hehe. And re: Anne Smith, is the husband Blake Smith? I would address Mr. & Mrs. Blake Smith & Family.

Post # 3
1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

Sierrap93:  Yes, send the groomsmen invites! Are you doing inner envelopes? If so, the outer envelope would say “Mr. and Mrs. Blake Smith” and the inner envelope would say

Mr & Mrs. Smith



Post # 4
1582 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I sent invitations to everyone, parents and wedding party included.

Post # 5
2704 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Sierrap93:  I would send invites to groomsmen. I am, with the exception of FIs brother because he told me he doesn’t want paper anything, everything needs to be via e-mail… meh.

Also, I would put ‘and family’. It’ll be clear, if not give her a quick call to confirm the and family means everyone… which I’m sure she’ll get anyways.

Post # 6
812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013 - Mansion House at the MD Zoo

Sierrap93:  We had this situation. I sent it to:

Ms. Amy G and Mr. Paul T.

Thomas, Kathleen, and Jack G.

Post # 7
22125 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’d still send invitations to the groomsmen. Everyone deserves a formal invitation, even if it’s a given that they’re attending. 🙂

Re: addressing the invite, I agree with kimmo416:!

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