- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I am having a pretty bad time with my soon to be mother in law. We’ve always had a funny relationship ( some months we’re really good and talk all the time and then other months we don’t even say a word to each other) she makes it pretty hard for people to like her because she always thinks she’s right and always starts drama which is why some months we get into an arguement and don’t even speak to each other, over the last four years I’ve learned to just not really care… I know she’s going to be one of those mother in laws that try to TELL me how to raise my children but I hold my own so I have no problem telling her off. My problem is we all went dress shopping to find MOB and MOG dresses… my mom finally found a really nice dress that I personally LOVE and think it really looks great on her
Now my mother is the type of person that doesn’t like drama so she’s trying very hard to like my mother in law but it’s hard when his mother says little bad things about me that annoy my mother, don’t get me wrong his mother can be very nice to me at times ( she buys me clothes, buys us groceries just because and even calls to see how i’m doing) I just think she honestly loves drama so she starts things just because! Anyways the MOG has problems with dresses she’ll think some dresses are not age appropriate for her but she’ll pick out things that “I” WOULDN’T EVEN WEAR! My fiancee went shopping with us this past weekend to make sure he’s mom didn’t show up to the wedding looking slutty… to let you see her taste these are the dresses she REALLY liked…
My mother seems to think she’s trying to buy a dress this this to piss me off and make herself more noticed than me. I really don’t know what to do! My moms been hinting that she doesn’t like those dresses so hopefully she won’t get them but by the end of our ‘crazy’ little adventure my fiancee was COMPLETELY annoyed at his mother and was just giving an attitude, when my mother asked MOG what was wrong she told her that he was upset because I was being too bossy with the dresses… REALLY?!?!?!?
I don’t think I am being unreasonable with picking out dresses… ALL I ask is that you A. don’t pick out a dress that outshines me or puts all the attention on you and B. no SLIT’S! I personally don’t like them and think they can look a little trashy.. other than that they have free rain on what they choose! Bee’s I need advice on how to handle this! My mother said she’ll try and handle her but if she shows up at my wedding wearing something terrible I’ll die! I’m not trying to put her in something ugly, here are some of the dresses we found that she tried on that actually looked awesome on her…